ok guys,i want to know why is it so hard for a man to really express his self,and come right out and tell a woman how he feels,why must there be game involved? everytime i ask something,my dude,really thinks about what/how he's going 2 answer me,and usually ends up saying what i want to hear followed by something,that messes up the whole response! example.....do u love me? yes,what do u think? lol or he might say....yes,but.....im tired of u b1tching? why do ya'll do that??? any signifigance to this?
2006-06-14 01:12:44 · 4 answers · asked by dawnita0322 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys (myself included) rarely can express themselves as you indicated because 1) They are afraid of you - afraid of offending you - afraid that you'll think less of them - afraid that you'll leave them - afraid that their uh uh... you know what supply will be cut off. 2) Guys hate it when a woman says "... can we talk?" - first thing that goes through most guys minds is ".... oh sh*t... how long is this going to take?" Guys don't like to put themselves in postions where they have to "discuss" their feelings in some long drawn out manner. So we act pre-emptively and keep our yap shut.
2006-06-14 01:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men don't like talking about feelings. Its how we're built. Besides why is this even an issue? If a guy is unhappy you will know it. If he does not say or act wierd your golden.
2006-06-14 09:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that pretty much says it all, he really does express him self, the only part you hear or want to hear is yeas I love you and yes, you don't want to hear “what do you think’ and “I am tired of you bi(tching all the time”. got it,,try to hear him out ,, you will get it,,
2006-06-14 08:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i think man usually thinks from mind and not at all from heart thats was the main problem
2006-06-14 08:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by feelings2rhyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋