and he is confused on what to du.he claims he luvs me and don wanna let me go for um just too goud to him.he asking for oll this advises from me .ppl tell me wat do i tell him,i still luv him and honestly i don wannna let him go
2006-06-14 01:05:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Max333 gave you a stupid answer. You should focus on the child ovbiously it has more maturity than your mate does. Let him go he is still a little boy in a man's body. Focus on what is most important. and Please educate yourself on the difference between love and lust. This is love...Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres
2006-06-14 01:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let him go. he should decide on who he wants to be with. as much as a child needs a father there are plenty people out there that grow up the proper way without a dad. sounds a bit harsh but think about your baby first. give your baby all the love it needs and everything will work out fine. your boyfriend has made the mistake of being dishonest with you right from the begining. if he has cheated on the other women with you, how do you know he's not going to cheat on you with someone else in a later stage. the fact that he has put you in this situation shows that he is not good enough for you. dont settle for second best.
2006-06-14 01:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by malibu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pregnant and the father of the baby is getting married to someone else? How did you ever get in this spot? As for having a relationship with this guy I'd give up on that real quick. He sounds like a total loser already. Tell him to keep in touch and when they baby is born, make sure he has an address to send the child support payments.
2006-06-14 01:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say lady. You made the first mistake. Who told you to rely on him. You enjoyed then and now be prepare for the results. That guy never loved you but want to use you life long as you are a dumb fool. The answer is within your Qs itself.
As per my opinion kick his ***, go for abortion and then find a good man, marry him and never quit the married gentleman.
The true luv is what goes a long way till old age, not the one quitting after using.
2006-06-14 01:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by Raj S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am reading this correctly:
He wants advise from you on his wedding plans to another women and your having his baby ??
First of all then he is a cheater. As One of you not so lucky lady's would not be suffering i.e. YOU.
How can you love a man who is getting married to another women while your pregnant with his child??
I say move on and reconsider the pregnancy. He is not going to leave this chick, as that is obvious, so either move on and raise your child alone or continue to waste your time and life on a dream that will not come true :) It is your call.
I would leave and raise my child solo and tell him sorry about your loose :) Best of luck to you and your wife to be :)
2006-06-14 01:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find a better mate than him - don't be desperate. He hasn't demonstrated love for you - only disloyalty to both you and she.
Let him go - you will get over it too - BUT be sure to require him to support his child. Don't just make a one-on-one agreement with him, do it legally and officially, through the court system.
(and that probably means that his wife-to-be will find out too who he really is - maybe she'll wake up too.
2006-06-14 01:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the baby and get child support from him. Take all the money until the child reaches 18. When he marries the other lady, it is like she will be supporting his child to. That is the perfect revenge against him.
2006-06-14 01:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by Quiet V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take control of him so that he feels like your the one he should chose then ask him to choose and if u **** up and he chooses wrong make him sufer and feel guilty and if he wont leave the woman he is planing to mary well then say you feel guilty and is going to tel her and drop hints evrywere that he can have you and the baby live happily ever after and that he doesn't need the other woman black mail him by sayin 'you say you love me but the only way to prove it is to leave her for a fresh start and a new baby'.i no this al sounds mean but you got to b cruel to be kind
2006-06-14 01:14:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abort
2006-06-14 01:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up girlfriend he's making wedding plans.Get out while u can.You deserve better than this.He don't love you if he's with someone else
2006-06-14 01:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by lolly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋