Would you keep saying you are sorry when it doesnt look like it is helping any? I mean he will talk to me but with attitude.
2006-06-14 00:46:09 · 20 answers · asked by feathersnake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats the way of love.........
2006-06-18 17:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
dont bother with him for a while, dont phone him or meet him, he'll realise how crap it is without you, im not saying ignore him but be really casual about everything... if he causes a fuss just tell him you needed a break from someone with such attitude... you've said sorry and he's obviosely supposed to have forgiven you so why he treating you like this, what else can you do!
2006-06-14 07:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would need more information, but your brief description paints a picture of a couple in conflict and uncertainty, where you try to smooth things over. To be sorry is to say you were or are unhappy about your actions or contributions to the conflict. It makes perfect sense to women, and we would accept your apology. But men don't apologize or understand apologies when offered. A man wants to know that he is successful and has made and is making you happy! Sorry says sad, not happy. He wants admiration for his accomplishments, especially when they help you; he wants appreciation for all he does to make you happy, and he wants trust. These are his happy making buttons. Sorry ain't in his vocabulary.
2006-06-14 07:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by marsvenusgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A couple apologies are fine, but you have to draw the line somehwere. If he's copping an attitude, then that's just a head game
2006-06-14 07:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by Maestro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar position myself not long ago. I don't think it helped. When a person gets in that self righteous mode, they are the only ones who can come out of it. Perhaps you are better off just leaving it alone.
2006-06-14 07:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by Tangle Elfshimmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumb him.Iff hes like that he will never change or he will but always keep it against you what ever you did.I had the same situation for 5 years it lasted after that everything changed.dont let him bring you down. They not wurth it!!!
2006-06-14 07:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him time. He needs to get over it more than you. Saying sorry over and over just brings it up again. be patient and supportive, won't be long.
2006-06-14 07:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you said sorry once that's enough anything after that is simple emotional blackmail. If he can't past it then let him know it's time for a change.
2006-06-14 07:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cant except sorry the first time .. dont bother wasting your breath saying it over and over.
2006-06-14 07:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by sue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jsut remember this, you decided to run and change your emails i wish you the best you really do deserve some happiness... i hope i did mean something more then $$$$$
2006-06-14 19:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by imurhuckleberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what u mean, gf. There has to be a limit to you puttin urself out there! Screw him! You aren`t anyones lap dog..
2006-06-14 08:02:57 · answer #11 · answered by May-May`s mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋