2006-06-14 00:35:51 · 24 answers · asked by rishita m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Well you love him but he obviously doesn't love you enough to respect the fact that you are a woman and you have feelings instead he had to go behind your back and cheat because he couldnt be man enough to say "I need sometime for myself, my feeling about this relationship have changed.." You have to love yourself more than that. You will find someone that really cares about your feelings and necessities.. it will be rough forgetting about Mr, Cheater but you'll see how fast you will forget about him when Mr. Wonderful brings your flowers and actually cares about your needs a woman.
2006-06-14 00:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by Tator 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In relationship, there is no reason to cheat..
If he cheated you, it means he does'nt love you. There is nothing you can do to get him back. All you need to do is forget him and forget the past.
I've been once to your situation before, you just need to make a decision which is best for yourself. No body can help you. Always remember there is always reason for everything that happens to your life.. Sometimes its a form of waking you up, loving a person who are not deserving to your love.
Just move on, be grateful, and be ready for the next part of your life. Be positive in all the aspects of life. People come and go... You just need to learn how to accept things and learn how to live your life to the fullest..
2006-06-14 00:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person who loves you and wants to be with you will not cheat.
Move on sweetie and I am sure you will find someone who truly love you for you :)
I suggest not getting really serious in a relationship until a person is at least 21 yrs old ! Give a person plenty of time to find the right person and enjoy a little life single too :)
2006-06-14 01:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to build you self esteem and self worth, if the one you love cheats on you, then you shouldn't want them back or have to do anything to get them back. If you are saying you love someone, then you do not cheat on them. Love does not hurt. Sounds like you need to pick yourself up and get on with respecting yourself and moving on. If you stay in that situation it will likely happen again. The more time you put into your relationship and it happens again, it is more time wasted.
2006-06-14 00:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by tsmitty1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheats, I don't want him back. It'll hurt but once a cheater always a chance to be a cheater. You'll never have the trust that is needed in a relationship after he cheats. I don't share - you cheat, I hope she's worth it.
2006-06-14 05:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by SweetPea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him back? Yeah, so you love him...big deal...he obviously didn't love you enough not to cheat on you. He was thinking of his undying love for you when he was kissing (among other things) another woman. Why live like that? Don't you deserve more than that?
2006-06-14 05:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If he comes back have him if you really want to deal with that. Once a cheater always a cheater. If he doesn't come back you don't want to deal with a one sided relationship. The feelings have to pass both ways. It won't work if you love him and he doesn't love you. You may stay together, but its gonna hurt way more then it needs to.
2006-06-14 02:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL FIRST OF ALL A PERSON WHO CHEATS DOES NT LOVE OR CARE FOR U HE OR SHE MIGHT SAY THEY DO BUT WHEN U BETRAY SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN WITH U IN GOOD AND BAD MOMENTS SHOULD NEVER TRY TO GET SOMEONE BACK EVEN IF YOU LOVE THEM YOU LL LOVE AGAIN LET THEM WITH THERE OWN INSECURITY AND WILL NEVER BE HAPPY
2006-06-14 00:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by jocysoul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what the emotion love has nuthin to do with nybody cheatin on u..it cannot end love...but one has to be practical....the feeling u hav now is for the present....but u gonna feel misrable later...so u better think a little practically...the feeling u hav of gettin him bac...might get him for now...but he'll cheat forever...ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS ONE....if that's k with u then give me a reply....
2006-06-14 00:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him ' I forgive you for the reason that I love you, I got all pains but I still love you.'
2006-06-14 00:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋