One of my best friends dumped this boy about 3/4months ago and they only went out for 2months. She dumped him bcoz she said she didnt even fancy him. About 3 weeks at a party me and him kissed and i told her coz every1 else saw and it would of got to her and she went crazy saying I thought i could trust you. Now we are friends again.
And now shes like i duno whether I fancy him but me and him are going out together and no one knows, am i doing the right thing here. We both really like each other and she hasnt said nefin about liking him recently.
Thanks xx
2006-06-13 23:48:39 · 14 answers · asked by nikki45333 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my time true and good or as you say best friends have a pat. Never date each others X. I don't care if the fancy is there or not it's just not right. All the men in the world you don't have to pick your best friends X-BO. That is wrong value your friendship and besides do you really want the left overs? That doesn't make for good eating.
2006-06-13 23:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Carol 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If She Dumped Him He Should Be Fair game. She Apparently Didn't Like Him enough To Keep Him Around, But She Could Also Get Mad And Try To Cause Trouble In The Relationship For You. Just Do What You Feel And Don't Take Advice Too Seriously From People Like Me who Don't Know The Situation.
2006-06-14 06:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by Woob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you like each other why suffer and hide? She dump him and it's not your fault. And you came in a right time where they are not together anymore. You should talk to her, tell her the whole truth, explain to her the situation cos in the first place it's not your fault or the man's fault, everybody has the right to love anybody specially if you are free and single. Maybe she's upset because she's jealous or a girl's pride, seeing her ex with another girl and is her friend. You know if she is really a real friend she will understand and be happy for you, although it's not that easy but soon she will realised it.
Be honest and frank with her. You deserve to be happy .
2006-06-14 07:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a common problem between women! So don't worry! You are not the only one out there! Your friend has broke up with this guy
but she is not ready to see him kissing another girl. This means two things:
1) She hasn't get over him! She can't stand that they are apart and she thinks that breaking up was a mere mistake!!!
2) She has get over him but her selfishness don't let her accept that his ex got over her! How pathetic! She believes that after breaking up, her ex will stay at home and cry all day! How ridiculous!
No matter what happens, she must be clear to you! WHAT YOU DO IS ABSOLUTELY NO WRONG!
Follow your heart! The fact that your friend was not happy with him, this DOESN'T MEAN YOU WILL BE UNHAPPY TOO!
2006-06-14 07:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend seems to have a bit of a dog in the manger attitude. she dumped the guy so why should she be upset if you and he get together. i can understand it if she find it a bit awkward, considering she dated the guy, but that does not mean she should stop you from seeing him. why don't you sit her down and find out how she really feels so that you guys can decide on a mature solution; check with her if there is something about the guy that makes her feel uncomfortable and protective about you. if there is nothing wrong and he is a really nice guy, maybe you guys should ensure you don't go out on a threesome or a double date too. but no way should you stop seeing the guys simply because she does not like it.
2006-06-14 06:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by vish2b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like your friend was being a little territorial, even though she didn't want the guy. It seems to me that you should talk to him about this and not worry about some other girl. Don't let her string this guy along just because she does not want you to have her. If she is willing to end your friendship over a guy that she does not even like, then she is not your friend. Go for it.
2006-06-14 06:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you could just say to her i have a problem, i was ask to go out with your old b/f how do you feel about it since you dont like him any more? but it happens all the time, everyone is always someone old b/f or g/f.. only difference is you know this person.
2006-06-14 06:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by bosslady17872 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see the reason why she got mad and all worked up cos she said she didnt fancy the guy anymore, u know bestfriends are forever, tell her u and the guy are seeing each other becos u like him and she has to understand becos she's the one who dumped him.
2006-06-14 07:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady, your friend dumped him first, right? To me, that means the dude is game... So don't even have 2nd thoughts about it. Go for it!
2006-06-14 06:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if s dumped him nothing should worry you you never wanted it to happen but it just happened. go ahead and have fun n dont let your friend interfere with it
2006-06-14 06:56:09 · answer #10 · answered by shee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋