would you give him the time of day 5 years down the line when he realises he misses you and wants to meet up for a chat and a coffee? How would you react to being bombarded with texts and long voice messages that were very aloof and forward even forcefull? He even said on the voice message "dont be so stubborn, give me a call"!
2006-06-13 23:32:37 · 16 answers · asked by smart_babe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive already dealt with this situation months ago, so at the end il let you know what it is i actually did do, but keep them coming in! Thanks guys!
2006-06-14 00:00:42 · update #1
I NEVER EVER CONSIDERED MEETING OR GIVING HIM THE TIME OF DAY BY THE WAY! IM JUST CHECKING TO SEE WHAT YOUR OPINIONS ON IT ARE!
VERY GOOD!
2006-06-14 00:10:16 · update #2
Do not let your curiosity trick you into resurrecting something that did not work 5 years ago, and probably won't work this time. You should have more going on in your life to even consider this meeting up for a "chat and a coffee". He's showing his real self with his rude forceful messages. He is clearly trying to manipulate you to satisfy his own desires. What gives him the right to text you and v-mail you that nonsense. It is a complete turn-off! If you meet with him, then all your doing is being used by him and sending him an explicit message that, if he is pushy, then eventually you will do as he says. No way, be in control of your own actions. Remember it's been 5 years and despite any nostalgic notions that you may have, you are no longer emotionally invested in this man. Text him that you do not like his behaviour and that you do not want to be bothered by him again. If he continues to do so, speak with your mobile operator and get his number barred from your phone. Good luck!
2006-06-13 23:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by Zane 2 · 14⤊ 3⤋
Do you not have any self respect?? What are you even thinking of? I know that you may still feel for him but, seriously get a life. You are too good for him and the more chances that you give this creep the more you will suffer in the long term. Break from the habit now and find out what you want from a relationship before going into another one long term.
Take care - Good luck x
2006-06-14 06:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy has had 2 chances to see that you were the very best thing that could have happened to him, and both times he chose to dump you. When in doubt, throw the bum out! Let silence be the only answer he receives. You're too good for him. If he did it twice, odds are he'll do it again. Get past this guy and find someone who really loves you.
2006-06-14 06:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by yourlivingword 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go meet him for a coffee!What's the worst thing that could happen, u can see if he has changed at all and then decide from there what u wanna do him calling u has given u the upper hand it's your choice wether u give it another go. just make sure u don't fall for the same bull u fell for before.
Even if u just go for revenge get his hopes up then drop him!
good luck
2006-06-14 06:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away from him. The guy's psycho! I think he enjoys playing with someone's playing. He must enjoy seeing someone suffer. I will just ignore anything he does... but if gets violent it's time to call the police. I will save his voice calls and text messages as evidence... The best thing to do- move somewhere he can't follow! The nerve.
2006-06-14 06:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ricz87 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, ignore him, think on why he's calling you. Is is because he knows you were always there in the past? Do you really need to play those games again? Life is too short and I wouldn't go out with someone who wasted my time or broke my heart. Besides I'm sure you've grown in 5 years and it sounds like he hasn't
2006-06-14 06:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by dlh1402 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u still feel good afterall that he's done to u? well, then forget about him cos he's no good, if he really loved u what will ever make him do all this mean things to u, he really wants to eat his own cake and have it, get a clue girl, he's never going to change, forget about him and move on with ur life, love urself for once.
2006-06-14 06:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont meet up, he hurt you in the past will proberly do the same again, don't let him use you. Just leave the relationship in the past where it belongs.
2006-06-14 06:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better to avoid him. Before it becomes dangerous, don't even give him the chance to talk to you. If necessary call a police and take their help.
2006-06-14 06:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by Onceuponatime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't try even to look at him when we accidental met. Why would you welcome such a man in your life again?. He can't go on with his life because no woman will allow such person and now he knows the last option is you. Don't accept him he will only ruin your life.
2006-06-14 06:42:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋