I moved to my boyfriends place in a different town and got a job and everything for him. But cant exsplain it ,its like whe are together but not realy. i dont know wat to do. I dont want to leave him. How do whe sort out this problem? When i speak to him he always justifies his actions and words.
2006-06-13 23:27:51 · 11 answers · asked by Libby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know, i recently felt the same way. I felt like me and my boyfriend were together but yet not really. I felt we were more of best friends.
So I talked to him and told him I felt sorta distant and asked if there was anything that we needed to talk about. Turns out, there was... and when we got it all fixed, things felt "together" again.
2006-06-16 19:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by MLPT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you want to leave him? do you love him or is it fear to be alone again? You have to be sure of your own feelings for clearly this is not working. Make him see your problem, if he cares for you he should listen and take you seriously. if words don't work maybe it helps writing him a letter. See whats missing in your relationship, see if he wants to help get it back, if he wants to put in some effort. If he does not listen, take you serious, wants to help, then he is not worth it to stay with him. All the best!
2006-06-13 23:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is that he is out of any insecurities and u have just stepped into one. He might be taking u forgranted now, but that is not a problem, keep your love alive. Blow some life into your relationship. Do something that he doesn't take u for granted anymore. And you too, no take him so.
2006-06-14 00:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by Hot I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are not happy with him, dont drag it out, go home or leave and get your own place since you have a job there should be no problem here. Sometimes relationships just die.
2006-06-13 23:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship you should get as much as you give. You gave a lot and received almost nothing. Dump him.
2006-06-13 23:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are doing too much for him and he feels stupid and useless. He probably doesn't feel like THE MAN....
2006-06-13 23:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Ms. Laura...do things for yourself, not for him.
2006-06-13 23:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's controlling this relationship. take back the control or be forever in wonder
2006-06-13 23:34:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it yourself - you did it for him - it has to be for you! Your heart will tell you what to do
2006-06-13 23:31:18 · answer #9 · answered by MS L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will tell
2006-06-13 23:30:10 · answer #10 · answered by europe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋