i have starting seeing this guy that told me he used to do drugs and just receantly tryed it again after being clean for a year and a half and i have already told him that i wont be aroun it because i have been clean for two years and wont go back but i dont know if i should give him the benefit of the dought because everyone should be givin a second chance or just say f**k you all together please help
2006-06-13 22:01:20 · 12 answers · asked by blondietaz2001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DONT EVER COMPROMISE YOURSELF FOR ANYONE! Let him go it is clear he does not want to change. If he was clean for 1 1/2 yrs then he shouldve stayed clean. If you want to stay clean let him go before he brings you down. You will only be as good as the ppl you surround yourself with ,let him go.
2006-06-13 22:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least he told you and is not trying to hide it, he is (maybe probably) being honest with you so that is something to respect. If we are talking heorin or crack or any of the majorly adictive drug i would keep an eye on him for a while just to make sure trying it again did not trigger an addiction. Talk to him it seems like you have an open realationship so work it out it is probably worth it.
2006-06-16 03:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by indieboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can give him the benefit of the doubt but make your stand clear. If he shows signs of use (marks, paraphernalia, physical signs etc) then let him know you will not stand for it and that you are out of the relationship. You want to move forward not back and drugs are dream killers and life has too much to offer. Take care and good luck.
2006-06-13 22:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't give up drugs and then "try" it later on. all he's doing is giving in to his addiction.
everyone should be given a second chance, but he's blown his. I'd say you should move on.
2006-06-13 22:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone without a drug history would be better for you. He has already started back be selfish and look out for yourself because he will not be able to.
2006-06-13 22:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, move on . I've been in the situation, they lie and continue the drugs. I'm sure he will cause you grief if you stay with him.
2006-06-13 22:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theirs better guys out their then that sweetheat, tell him to f**k off. Get a guy that will give you what you want in life.
2006-06-13 22:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by mattman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there myself, so please take my advice and GET AWAY
never been on drugs myself, but my ex was. he always lied, cheated and got violent too sometimes, even when i was pregnant with our son.
good on you for staying clean, so please do not let him drag you down with him. get away now while you still can.
good luck
2006-06-13 22:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go
2006-06-13 22:24:34 · answer #9 · answered by The_Champ_is_Here! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him
2006-06-13 22:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by ken_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋