2006-06-13 21:17:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You can't force anyone to change themselves. I would definitely have a talk with him. Its best to write a list of the things you that were bothering you. When you sit down face to face with him you may get too emotional to remember everything and the list will help you keep on track.
Basically you are going to have to tell him what's bothering you. See if anything is bothering him and somehow COMPROMISE. If he tells you that he isn't going to do something that you would like him to, then you have to decide whether or not you can live with that.
It's good also to make sure to take time out for yourself and do things that you need to do to make yourself happy. If he isn't making you happy, as soon as you have enough strength to do so. . . . leave. Losing you/or almost losing you will hopefully make him realize what you are to him. Just remember not to blow something out of proportion.
Remember true Friends will always be there to help support you.
2006-06-13 21:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by lovply69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship you are in for 6 months has become more important to you than it is to your boyfriend. The minute sex came into the relationship, he lost the feeling of being in "the chase" and gained the realization that long term commitment could be the next expectation of him. Back off from the sex and see if you can build more of a social friendship with this man. Common goals in life and values will sustain a relationship. Sex will not. There are no games to play. He will either decide to work on building and keeping your company and establishing a social friendship with you or you will continue to be no more than a booty call for him. Do not let your parents divorce force you into the desperation of chasing after anyone just to have someone in your life. If he is not the romantic type and that is really what you are looking for, stop worrying because you can do badly all by yourself and you can do better. Give him, and other males a chance to show you how considerate and compatible with you they can be as personal friends without having to be reminded. You cannot build a relationship single handily. Best wishes.
2016-03-27 03:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your boyfriend, there is no honeymoon period. That's in reference to a married couple. Every couple has their ups and downs. If he doesn't realize how much you mean to him, move on. Why spend your life being taken for granted?
2006-06-14 00:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do all those things that u did on your honeymoon on a regular basis.many women think that after the honeymoon they can relax and deny therir man sex on a regular basis.do it even 20 times a day that is if he has the strength
2006-06-19 02:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by Funkmaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have u been together then? Why are their problems within the realtionship now?
Can u be a little more specific then perhaps i could give advice
2006-06-13 22:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you honeymoon period is not over. Its your insecurity which has taken over you. You are insecure. If you both really love each other, it will be over only when u both are not there in this world.
2006-06-13 23:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you kinda have to ask him how much you mean to him, or put him in a situation that he can show it. but nothing you do can make him realize something if it's not there to begin with.
2006-06-16 23:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by Voodoo6969_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to convince him how much you mean to him? If he doesn't know, then it's time to find someone who will appreciate you.
2006-06-14 06:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean how much he means to you?...Take spelling lessons
2006-06-13 21:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing! be your self, if he doesn't know with the little things like holding hands,kisses,saying i love you then he will never know . be your self.
2006-06-13 21:24:29 · answer #10 · answered by lady_di_ar125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋