"Had it been permissible that a person prostrates before another, I would have ordered that a wife prostrate before her husband." (Abu Hurairah/AT Tirmidhi)
That is another criterion to get to paradise as Hadith books claim. You can see the discrepancies between the greatness of God and the inferiority of man when you compare this statement that is claimed to be what the prophet Muhammed said and the words of God in 30:21
"Among His proofs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves, in order to have tranquility and contentment with each other, and He placed in your hearts LOVE and CARE towards your spouses. In this, there are sufficient proofs for people who THINK."
Open your eyes and see that Hadith is contradicting Islam. Who is with me?
2006-06-13 21:02:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Here's the thing...God is way wiser than any person, including Muhammad. God would know that if something like that were permissable, then people would misuse it to enslave women/their wives.
Therefore, it is not a hadith that woman bow down before her husband. 'I would have' is not the same as 'I do order'
Instead, wives are required to respect their husbands...that's nothing new and revolutionary.
And husbands are to love their wives. God knows what He's talking about when he prescribes behaviour to married people. The same mesasge is contained in the Bible.
2006-06-13 21:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by stacey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First to understand Hadeeth well and to compare with what has been mentioned in the Quraan you should learn more about Islam. You can not sit back and throw accusations just because you like to.
There is no contradictions at all, Prophet Mohammed said that "If it is Permissible" and the Quraan proves that it is not permissible. In his Hadeeth Prophet Mohammed was just emphasizing the role of the man in the family. The natural role which nowadays has been demolished ... And with his Hadeeth Prophet Mohammad did not contradic with Quraan.
If you really care about the scientific Discussion, you should have read the Hadeeth of Prophet Mohammed which says " The best of you are the best to their women" ... how do you explain that ???
Accordingly; I kindly ask you, to investigate the scientific method of discussions about Islamic principles if really you care to have a proper discussion. But if it is just to disgrace Islam ... it does not worth the reply
2006-06-14 04:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by BEEL ® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it makes me smile every time when i see people trying to find contradictions like this regarding the status of women in Islam. now the answer.
there is no contradiction here. there is a big IF in the Hadith. and the subject of Hadith is to emphasize the importance of marriage bond. women, in general, fail to be thankful to the husband for his efforts in running of family. they very readily start complaining about trifles and most of the times, their conclusion is that she has lost a lot and gained nothing from marriage. this is a common experience of any common man who knows what marriage is. this Hadith draws attention of women to the husband and his efforts so that they do not fail to appreciate the same. it does not say that there should be no love and care towards women.
2006-06-14 04:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by shkl469 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is reduculous....
by just reading few lines in Quran and few hadith you have spoiled your thinking may Allah forgive you....
About the first hadith...wife is to be loved and cared for and Islam is the only religion which gives equal rights to women....and as for prostrating before husband means not worshipping him but asking women that husband is very Importand as in those times women used to have polygamy and had men for their sexual needs and a single women could marry and have many husbands in a same time.....so that is what Prophet meant...be faithful to one....not asking them to worship thier husbands....
2006-06-14 04:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by ♥peacemaker♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are good at English, you would know what the structure 'Had it been' is used for. The Hadeeth you stated only implies how highly important it is for a wife to be good to her husband. Obviously she would not do what is mentioned literally. This is meant only metaphorically to deliver the message; wives, be good to your husbands.
What do you want to reach at the end? If you do not believe in Hadeeth, then you are not a Muslim. And if you are not a Muslim, Hadeeth is not your problem. I wish you would stop misleading people.
2006-06-14 04:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by daliaadel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no contradictions except in your understanding. Females are loyal to their husbands, and males are loyal to their mothers, it is a kind of balance.
2006-06-14 04:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by lukman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you are dumb and deaf...or you are dumb....???
either way..you would ..get it...when its too late...atleast now you have no alibi... so no one ever told you the facts....
2006-06-14 05:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by kaka90250 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes??????? and????
2006-06-14 04:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by Dark Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋