i broke of wid my b\f but i still end up thinking abt him. can any1 help me on this?

Question

i broke off wid my boy friend last month finally. i tried my level best to continue the relationship but it dint last. there were many reasons 4 our break off & before this we had decided twice that we'll not continue but we still ended up talkin to each other but this time both of us r quite. i have completely lost my self! wat to do next

Answer 1

ur still in love remember true loves never end up easily nor u forgot it easily ur question shows that u were honest with r relation if evry thing had end and there is no turning back u might have to control ur self form the pain but if there is turning back u should solve ur problem talking with him again if hes sincere with you too else try to busy ur mind in some work

Answer 2

Breaking up with someone and moving on with your life is never an easy thing, especially if you are the one who tried to make it work. Breaking up in this situation was the best thing you could have done for yourself. There are way too many good people out there who can appreciate a good woman. Give it some time, focus on loving yourself and who you are as a person, then and only then should you go out and look for someone you want to spend time with. When you are happy with who you are as a person, others will see and feel it and you will be able to make better choices on who you decide to be with. Until then, enjoy life and all the beauty it has to offer. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

find other things to keep your self occupied. This does not mean to go find someone else right away cause that isnt always a good thing to do. Go out with friends or go out alone. Find new hobbies and have some fun. It is normal to think about that person for a while but it will subside if you find other things to fulfill your life.

Answer 4

i guess it all depends on how long you were together and how you actually broke it off. their is no reading between the lines if your not together let it be and find other things to do with your time i wasted 4 years of my life chasing something that i thought was real and i let it go so many times and went back to something that was ending up being unsure of myself and that's all, believe in yourself and you will go far.

LOVE yourself and the it is easier to t find love.

Answer 5

Call up a couple of your best friends and go out on the town and enjoy yourself. That does not mean that you need to go out and get stinking drunk and end up in bed with something you will regret later. A group of girls can go out and have a great time with no men involved and I don't mean that sexually either. Time to move on to bigger and better things in life.
LIVE, LOVE, AND LAUGH!!

Answer 6

You gotta get down with some horned up, well hung guy to take your mind off the whole situation... After a few nights of hot, sweaty passion with your new stud, you will have forgotten all about your ex's tiny package...

Answer 7

If youve already decided not to get back together then stay strong find something else to do meet new people and in a matter of time you wont be thinking of him

Answer 8

keep in mind the reasons you broke up and keep urself occupied hang out wit friends do some overtime @ work, kick it with the fam, wat your feeling is normal you've hit your rock bottom from the sounds of it and thats great. because when your at rock bottom the only place to go from there is up. go and try new things and see wat you like and dont like. you will proubly meet some kewl poeple doing that. good luck hun

Answer 9

Do u love him? If u do tell him about the way u feel even if u don't just tell him about how u feel about the broke up. just tell him even if he doesn't want to hear it. If he a jerk why talk to him but if he more than that, talk to him and ask him how he feels.

Answer 10

You should maybe go for a holiday somewhere far from your country.

Even though i advice u to go for a holiday, you better stop dating for a while for you to forget about your b/f.

I hope this advice helps you!