Girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago and insisted being friends because she 'wasn't a relationship person' (excuses :P). Instead of crying about it and acting like a wuss I instead made it look like I was fine with everything. I've also made it clear my life is going great right now and am happy. Although I do plan to move on and meet new girls, I'd also like to see if I can get back with the ex girlfriend because I do actually like her alot and we get along well. Would casually letting her know that I am dating again be a good idea to help win her back? Or just staying friends and being confident and fun to be around? I'm not one of those guys who is begging to get back with her and I can't live without her I'd like to see what some good things are to do they may help out if there's still a chance. :P
2006-06-13 19:13:30 · 15 answers · asked by everlongdrummer87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may make her a little jealous and therefore more interested...but it might make her retaliate and do the same thing that she thinks YOU are doing. She might wonderif you really cared about her if you got over her so quickly. I would say just stay friends and be confident and fun to be around. If you do start dating don't hide it from her, but don't lie about it, or throw it in her face either. If it is meant for you to be together, staying on good terms at least is your best bet!
2006-06-13 19:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by mzstorm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm how about WHY would you even want her back. Hello..anybody home? The chick curved you and if the utmost disrespect. "Hey guy I like" hold on wait right here for 38,738 days until I get my slut phase out and oh yeah by the way don't like enjoy your life other women. God forbid that! Man you gotta be kidding me. If a girl ever told me that I would honestly either bust out laughing or think she is mentally ill. Look my friend-be glad she gave you INSTRUCTIONS.. most times that stuff can just happen and be a secret that will mess you up. She is wacky, but at least honest. She gave you a prescription for 1-hell no and 1-gtfoh to be taken twice a day with food. There are many much prettier, that would hear that and throw up-go get you some great ones. Get you a bmw i8 that is a busted old used up toyota. You can only get back a piece of her and most likely will just be meaningless sex, but that's it. If you do you have to become distant, uninterested like overnight. She'll respond-facts
2015-12-07 17:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by winwithomar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same problem here. My ex girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago saying that she didn't want to be in a serious relationship because she's young and still wanted to have fun. But she told me that she would regret about breaking up with me and asked me if I would take her back when she's done "having fun". I know this is totally selfish of her, but it's part of my fault cuz I had been treating her like a princess and giving whatever she asked for.
Since the breakup, she's been going out with people (mostly guys) every night. She's making me so jealous and upset. I like her a lot and tried to tell her my feelings for her but I'm just so sick of being so devastated and childish. I need to move on but I want to at least make her feel sorry for dumping me.
any suggestions?
2006-06-17 10:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Nate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling your ex girlfriend that you are happy and dating again will not get her back! She will feel as if you have got over her and that you can live on without her. You'll push her away. Just stay friends with your ex and take it from there. Stay friends, have fun and make her feel that it is great fun to be around you. Good luck!
2006-06-13 19:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean lying to her doesn't really prove anything accept that you are a liar. I mean do you fully know that she is over you and ready to move on I mean she could also be lying to you. I mean if it were me I would tell mt ex that I was okay but the times we had were great you know but I have to move on and find someone else. But if in fact you are looking for a way to get back at her do that but if like u say u really want her back and you miss her the way you do, be a REAL gentlemen and tell the truth. Trust women love to her that they are being wanted and that they are truly missed by their man. ( i know I do!)
2006-06-13 19:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Leasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're never going to get her back that way. You will be too concerned of her perception of you to really just be yourself and meet new girls. If you want her back tell her now, if she says no, then oh well, move on. Trying to make her jealous, or trying to impress her is just playing games. Games suck for everyone involved.
2006-06-13 19:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by Cory Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really want to get back with her.. tell her how you feel. if you tell her that you are dating and happy it might just break her heart if she is still in love with you. trust me.. im a girl.. i know these things. a girl likes a guy who is in touch with his feelings. if you tell her how you feel NOW then she just might love you more than ever. but it sounds like you dont really care if you get back w/ her or not. if you dont really care do w/e the heck you wanna but if you do.. i wud take my advice. if she found out u told her that and didnt really mean it she will take it as you lied to her and she wont liek that at all. its better just to tell her how you feel. if you tell her that u r datin and happy.. she will take it as you actually moved on.. and i can tell you didnt all the way yet
2006-06-13 19:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that her sister just nailed you on her bed, that should get her blood boiling...but seriously, be the bigger man and say that you miss the relationship with her but you realise that you both have unreconcilable differences, take the high road. Who knows, she might respect you for that and perhaps intro duce you to a really nice gal in the future...happened to me, could happen to you. Just take the high road.
2006-06-13 19:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposite. My ex just tried this. I took it as he moved on. Try being open and hones if you really want her back.
2006-06-13 19:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by hpygrl01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell her that u r dating again......she will consider you as "off the market" should she want want a relationship in the near future...and then she WILL look for someone new
2006-06-13 19:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by snoozebuttonpuppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋