I've been with my bf since December. But we have broken up several times. When we aren`t fighting he makes me so happy. I think I'm ready to settle down and start a life with him.
2006-06-13 18:43:46 · 20 answers · asked by star 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you keep breaking up, there HAS to be a reason. Move on.
2006-06-13 18:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by bittersweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you have broken up. Before you decide to settle down you have to consider whethr this decision would have an effect on the disagreements you are already having. Maybe you could date and see if there is anyone else you like, without getting serious. And if it is meant for you and your boyfriend to be together, love will bring you back to each other. Sometimes you have to step away from what you love to really be able to evaluate if it is the right situation for you.
2006-06-14 01:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by mzstorm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only been with him for 6 months, you two, still dont know each other, and you want to settle down with him? The I do's dont all of a sudden make things rosy and rainbows. Find out the source of your arguments, then go from there. But dont be thinking about settling down with him for about another year, and then take another year to decide is this who you want to wake up to every morning?
2006-06-14 01:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by okalredy812 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any time your sentence starts with "when we arent fighting..." you really should sit down and rethink the whole relationship
you guys have only been together for 7 months and your already fighting?
just dont be too ready to settle if its all about fighting figure out what you guys are fighting for and if its worth it
2006-06-14 01:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by ptmamas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your talking crazy! - You have broken up several times in the past 6 months. THINK
2006-06-14 01:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was mr. right guy, u would haveno quiestions and no need to ask, ask ur close friends in that case not in yahoo, plus the question is truly in you, if he proposes u can't ask other pple if they believe ur answer should be yes or no, get the point? i mean not to be mean or nothin like that, but think about it,if u really think to life with him the rest of ur life no doubt what so ever, and u won't ever want to do other guys then go for it
2006-06-14 01:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by what_to_do_00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1) You've only been with him for 6 or 7 months.
#2) It's a volatile relationship.
How do these two facts add up to happily ever after for you?
Answer to your question:
No, he's not right for you. Why do you think you two keep breaking up? Open your eyes!
2006-06-14 01:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I have heard this once I have heard it a million times....... if the relationship is more fighting than anything else , he is NOT the Mr Right you are looking for....... but only you know that for sure...... but think of this, if you were to marry him, are YOU willing to live life the way you date ??? God bless
2006-06-14 01:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be that's the reason why you fight a lot. may be you're not on the same page about settling down. if you can discuss with him the idea, it will be better.
2006-06-14 01:48:11 · answer #9 · answered by chenelynmae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him before you get sucked into thinking the fighting is suppose to be the norm-you only been together since dec.
2006-06-14 01:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by dahighuget 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋