How many of you thinkl that your parents ask you to much qustiones. Or about you doing something like dating. Or making you study to much. I hear alot of kids saying parents are to nosey and bossy. I want to hear your opinion.
2006-06-13 18:41:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First and foremost you as parents need to set a good example...If you as parents work hard, then teach your children to work hard as well...raise them to be independent -not dependent on someone else...Mothers and or fathers teach your boys and girls to cook, and take care of themselves...
Teach them how to get a job and better themselves and how to earn money and save some of that money...teach them without GOD nothing is possible....teach them to be kind to others and to to treat all people with respect and teach them to cherish their parents and grandparents. As the cycle goes we will not all be around to see them for ever...so treat them with respect and if you have boys make sure they treat a lady with respect. And if you have girls teach them how to respect themselves and to take care of themselves, how to cook and to clean properly, and work hard and mothers set good examples for your daughters. And Fathers set a good example for your sons and your daughters, the children see how you treat each other and they will
learn the same towards others....
2006-06-13 19:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by fscape444 2 · 13⤊ 4⤋
I am a parent and I think that some parents may not be nosy or bossy enough. If parents get involved in the kid's life then the child will have a feeling of belonging and that their parents actually care about him. My 2 oldest kids probably felt the way you do when they were younger, now they are 19 and 23 they tell me they are glad that I am the kind of mom that I am. They have a 5 year old sister and they know that kids need more parental involvement. I don't mean snooping into diaries or searching their rooms either. I mean get to know them as people and treat them with the same respect that you want from them. I think I have 3 lovely children and I wouldn't change a thing about the way they were raised. They have grown into responsible adults and they appreciate the lessons they were taught growing up. They knew that they had a mother who was always there for them and had their back. At the same time, they knew if they did wrong there were consequences. That's life- for adults as well as kids. No way around it. May as well learn it while you're young.
2006-06-13 18:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by beachlover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some parents don't allow their kids to have privacy. Others give their kids too much freedom. Its a very fine line, and I think parents have to bring up children that they can trust. And they should always be involved and aware of what is going on with their child, because the majority of the time, when they aren't, the child is usually into something they have no business into. BUT they should be able to have a relationship established in which they shouldn't have to pry too much. For one, the child should be able to feel comfortable discussing certain things, and know that they will not be judged or punished for that communication. Fear of that is why so many kids shut down and won't talk to their parents anyway, because they just KNOW that their parents wont understand. And the sad thing about it is, a lot of the time, they are right, because I think parents fail to recognize their children as individuals with their own thoughts and feelings.
That being said, I just want to state that I am a parent!!!
2006-06-13 18:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by mzstorm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think parents are just concerned for kids' well-being and kids should respect that. My parents were strict, and I resented it at the time, but I turned out a lot better than many of my cousins and people I went to high school with, and I'm really grateful they were "nosey" and "bossy".
2006-06-13 18:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me a lengthy time period to come back out to my friends and relations, and in the beginning a lot of my friends merely idea it replaced into an interest element. i got here across it confusing to inform my mothers and fathers, yet I were given in an quite severe courting, with my nevertheless important different. I instructed my mum and he or she refrained from me putting forward it replaced into not straight forward to imagine no longer having grandchildren, this ruined our courting, yet i'm chuffed and he or she did not understand this, that because i'm with a woman it really is diverse, even though it really is not! I now stay with my dad, who accepts it significantly better, and loves me for who i'm. Now i'm totally out, and experience being with my fiancee, i'm 18 years of age and sense that I actually have outgrown the bullying and feedback that were revamped the perfect 4 years.
2016-10-14 03:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Questions: They're the anti-drug.
Ditto to Beachlover. Couldn't put it better myself.
My parents were extreamly hands-off. They never knew what electives I was taking in school, or who my friends and teachers were. Neither ever came to a single open house for any of my classes, or called when I was babysitting to make sure everything was cool. They were also not affectionate. If you have an involved parent, I guarentee you'll be the better for it.
2006-06-13 19:11:41 · answer #6 · answered by Singlemomof10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do. i just sometimes wish that they let me do things my way with the thought that i have their full support.
2006-06-13 18:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by chenelynmae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with beachlover!
2006-06-13 19:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by Someonesmommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-13 18:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋