What if your boyfriend is 36, he has already been married, has kids...?

Question

so do you, but you are 25. Can you really wait until your married to each other to have sex again? Will he with time expect sex from me? Aren't guys at 36 on the way down from being so horny?

Answer 1

I met my hubby when he was 35 and I was 23.We both had children from previous relationships. Now we have 3 kids between us and the sex has never been better...he turns 42 this year and I just tuned 30...I feel that men get better with age,like a fine wine. And the more sex they have when young...the more likely they want it and get it when they are older.

Answer 2

36....25..... both have kids. I would imagine that sex is what got you two where you are now. I know couples older than 50 that have sex on a regular/daily basis. 11 years difference is quite an issue. I have yet to meet a guy that is looking for a young woman on grounds other than sexual or purely out of wanting to control the situation completely. I'm not a doctor and I am in no way an expert but I don't know any couple with such an age difference that wasn't out of lust or convience. Sexual peak for men is 16-25 and for women 30-40. What you don't want now may be what you won't find enough of later. Think in terms of the long run. He will have gray hair by the time your 30....in your prime....just an opinion but find someone within 5 years in age. Although I'm not discounting him because I never had him evaluated by a licensed phsycologist

Answer 3

I don't understand.
He's divorced and has kids, right?
What does that have to do with having sex with you?
Are you saying that you don't want to have sex right now? Then don't.
If he EXPECTS it and you don't want to JUST DON'T, what's the dilemma?

And, at least the men i know who are in their 30's, are still very much interested in having sex!

Answer 4

Hey...I'm 35. Been married for 14 years and have always been in the mood...lol As for when the down slide occurs...shoot me then.....lol