i seen him doing this... one time my lil sister had a doll she is 3 and his about to be 5 years old, so anyways i seen how he took the doll away frow her and put a rope all over the dolls body and after that he put tape on the dolls eyes and mouth. i really was concerned so i told hi not to do it again. do you think thats normal because i really think it wasent normal!! i told him that was not a very nice thing to do! answers please thank u!
2006-06-13 18:15:40 · 21 answers · asked by MONA3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes
it is not normal.
but u wl need to find out the reason behind.
is he watching such kind of seriouls or movies?
is he not getting enough attention love care?
dont scold him for that but try too make understand that it is nt good.i appreciate that u did that.
u know childs mind r very sesitive.
if u ask him not to do something then he wl definately do that.
keep him engage in different creative activities so that he wl forget that distructful thoughts that might b coming to his minds.
keep a keen watch on wat he watches or reads it wl help u ton know that wat is the source of this thoughts.
also keep an eye on his friends r they good enough
or they r the source.
u need to b careful & u hav to do more obervation.
u must b ready to take efforts,
coz now he is in the age where u can change him but if u loose this chance u wont b able to do it again.
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2006-06-13 18:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by Rushik 2 · 12⤊ 1⤋
He thinks that it's just a game. He probably saw it on TV or he plays it on video games. He probably saw it so many times that he thinks it's normal for someone to do. Be very careful.
You must explain to him what are those actions he did, in order to understand that is not right. Teach him the value of human life as much as possible for his age. Be careful of what he is watching on TV or playing while at home don't allow toys like guns or violent TV games (because it will become routine and acceptable by his eyes).
Raising kids is very important and difficult thing and it's not for a sibilant to do, seek for professional help if your parents are not capable of it.
2006-06-13 18:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Bigfoot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is where did your lil' bro see such an event....
Other than that - he will grow out of it. I could see the rope - but the tape is a bit much...
He will grow out of it - just express to him that this is something that should never be done to real people...
2006-06-13 18:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by offerofopinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's full of demons and is practicing on the doll before he goes after his sister.
2006-06-13 18:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by rectalsaraus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm yeah its normal. I mean he is 5. Its only not normal if he starts playing with it like a girl would. Boys tear up stuff thats what they do.
2006-06-13 18:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a teacher and i can say that its not normal for a 5 yrs. old kid to do such thing... monitor his actions, things he watch on tv, and the language his usin...and and make sure that u got his attention and he understand things y its not good to do violent actions.... if u want ur lil bro to grow as a good guy then be there for him.....
2006-06-13 18:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by macki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your brother maybe actting out and he need some help because he only 5 year old and he cant tell you what going on because he dont know himself so take him out by his self and asked why was he do that and where did he learn that from if he said someone did it to him then you need to help him its your job to help him if he was just playing around then you tell him that not good ok
2006-06-13 18:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!!
well maybe he's seen this on TV or sumthing (i dont mean to blame TV) but hes little. I guess just talk to your parents and tell them to talk to your brother, hes young and if you teach him now im pretty sure he'll understand not to do it again!
2006-06-13 18:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by .... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would bring that up to your parents. It is normal for boys to be rough and rip barbie's head off, but that does not seem normal. It seems kind of sick. That should be brought to his doctor's attention.
2006-06-13 18:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by Johnie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that at that age it could be more to mess with your sister but that you should talk to your parents if you see that he is doing this thing more and more
2006-06-13 18:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by spyder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋