my fiance for the last 2 months has been telling me he'll slit my throat...he'll enjoy it...he's been telling me a few other things, that are much worse than slitting my throat...I'll spare the faint of heart those threats...well it finally came to a head yesterday when he said he'd have my daughter killed...after that, he told me that he didn't mean it once when he said **** like that..he was just scared he'd lose me...which doesn't make what he did right by no means...after hearing this for the last months, I don't know if I believe he's NOT serious about this...although he's told me how potective he is of me...that I know is true...the question is...do I still have my daughter removed? keep in mind he lives about 1500 miles away from me..I know ppl are wondering WHY I'm still with him...think about it for a minute...and for all the women out there who are attracted to the "bad boys" careful what you wish for..you might get it!!
2006-06-13 18:04:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all you don't mention your age but one must assume that you are over 18 at least. Is this child from him or from another man? Don't bother with a restraining order because they are only as good a the law enforcement in your town. There have been a number of women killed by boyfriends after they have a restraining order placed. Take No. 2's advise. Get the heck out of Dodge or where ever you live and do it quick. Don't let anyone know where you are that can tell HIM! It is for your safty as well as that of your daughter. The man is a psyciopath and you should make a report to the local police before you leave. It is a crime to threaten someone else with bodily injury. Not to mention that he has said that he will will have your daughter KILLED. At least the law enforcement will be on the look out. Once you have moved away use your mothers maiden name because you can do that legaly. Don't list your phone number either. Just initials and no address. If it were me I'd move to a different state. I would put as much distence between him and me as I could. It may be hard at first but you will be alive and well. If you stay it may take him months to do what he says he is going to do but trust me he will eventually do it and then it will be too late. Men that talk that way usually do so to intimidate, but then they need more power over you and they start to do things physicaly to the people they say they will hurt. Talk to the law or the DA in your town and they may be able to give you more advise. No matter weather you take my advise or theirs PLEASE take your own advise and get out of there. Hope this helps and may God watch over you and your daughter. Be Safe If you need to talk to someone email me at Whilemom47@yahoo.com
2006-06-13 19:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by whilemom47 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you? You KNOW he's protective of you?!!!
He's psychotic!!! This guy is sick and he's totally got you right where he wants you --submissive and worrying about HIM.
You should be more concerned for your daughter!!!!
I don't care if he lives on mars, if he knows where you live he is a threat! Are you just waiting for the day he shows up unexpectedly to make good on his threats?
When you decided to have children you made a commitment to love, care and protect them from even yourself if need be!
2006-06-14 01:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to run away now, change your name and phone number if you can. I guess its natural to be attracted to the so called bad boys but your fiance is just a straight up psycho.
2006-06-14 01:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by DNet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever sick sex games you guys play is nobody's business but keep your daughter out of it. By any chance, is your fiance's name Charlie Manson? Pol Pot?
2006-06-14 01:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by Siddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order....Now! If he violates that have him arrested. Things are not going to get better only worse if you don't get away from him totally.
2006-06-14 01:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by asitcomes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋