i have known this guy for ages but about 8 months ago we crossed the line of being just friends one drunken night we started flirting and ended up kissing there is a lot of chemistry beween us it hasn't gone further than kissing yet but 5 months ago i left to go travelling for 6 months and last week i was told he has got some girl pregnant . i'm going back in a month and don't know wether i should continue where we left off or forget about it and just be friends!
2006-06-13 17:24:56 · 16 answers · asked by blondebirdcrazy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be friends, it sounds like it was just a bit of drunken fun.
2006-06-13 23:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 1⤋
luck you !!what if he got you pregnant?it says a lot about him...just think, he never used protection! ,and how many other girls could he probably have slept with?this is the best time to have a deeper idea of who he is, whats he gonna do now that he is a daddy?i think you should step back and just be friends establish boundaries...oooooh and no more kissing!!!its always the alcohol isnt it LOL!!!!!!!
2006-06-14 01:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by bravo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a lot of baggage right now. I think he needs a friend more than a lover. Be there for him as a friend right now and maybe when he gets through this things will naturally fall into place, just don't complicate things right now. Good luck sweetie.
2006-06-14 00:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by mamawjackie1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if theres chemistry u wont be able to be jus friends im in the same predicament wit a guy. is he supportin the gal? and 100% sure its his? u have to ask urself; does it bother u that he got another gal pregnant and if nefin would come of the chemistry would the pregnancy affect it
2006-06-14 05:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by sexy_gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends Only, if you can keep it to that limit. If you think that will go further later, drop that too. Don't get in the same boat.
2006-06-14 00:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by Tharaka D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he wasn't thinking about you at the time he was spending with this other girl.If you decide to still be friends with him that you will have to put up with that other girl and the baby if she decides to keep it.Go and find yourself another nice man.
2006-06-14 02:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by wally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends. He sure seems that he has moved on. If he has gotten some girl pregnant then what you two supposedly had didn't mean to much to him. Move on girl and be friends. If that's possible.
2006-06-14 00:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMHO ... you should forget about it unless of course, he is breaking up with the girl he got pregnant (and what if he does the same to u?) and u still want to be with him. You can definitely continue to be friends.
On a lighter note... u r welcome to share the chemistry afresh with me .. are u willing.. msg me!
2006-06-14 00:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by cool_guy_2005_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he's picked up more than where you left off. His actions send a clear message don't they?
2006-06-14 00:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by Michael T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's BEST to MOVE on with your LIFE, you can still be friends, but let it stay at that. It's OBVIOUS he was not thinking ABOUT YOU !!!
2006-06-14 00:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by skycloud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋