3 years ago I discovered photographic evidence of the love of my life (or so I thought) molesting my children and other neighborhood children. I was devestated! I took the photos to the police station and he was arrested that night. I have not had the urge to date since, but my friends and family keep trying to push me into it. Should I give dating a shot or continue ignoring them and wait until I know I am ready to begin dating again?
2006-06-13 17:21:46 · 12 answers · asked by Daydreamer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me start by comending you on getting worthless trash out of our neighborhoods and having the strength to put his *** in jail, that being said you went through a tramadic experience that definately will change your view on dating and make you leary of trusting someone but you need to wait till you feel you are able to be comfortable dating and give any perspective guy a fair chance at seeing the true you. You truely can't know for sure ahead of time what type of issues he may have, but be careful!
2006-06-13 17:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by tuff742003 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give dating a shot because you may never remember and gross why would someone molest a child. You have to start some time and it should be soon. Make sure he is the rite man for you and very hones and trustworthy unlike your last husband and try not to think about the horrible past.
2006-06-14 00:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not fair to the people you may date if you are not ready. On the other hand, dating may be just what you need to move on. So you should try to date again but, be fair and honest to those you date
2006-06-14 00:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by Corey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are ready. How can anyone push you after such a traumatic experience. Take your time. You will know when you are ready. Good luck in the future.Be safe, be happy.
2006-06-14 00:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Texas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your ready, but are your children ready for another man in their and your life yet? That is the major issue you should deal with first, have you and your kids healed enough yet?
2006-06-14 00:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you and your children are ready then go for it, until then just tell the family to lay off. Sorry to hear about what happened.
2006-06-14 01:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are not ready to date then don't let anyone push u into to doing so and when the time is right you will know
2006-06-14 00:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by scooby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, u should coz u have to forget that incident and carry on ur life afresh. Who knows u may meet ur true love this time? All the best.
2006-06-14 00:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should. no reasons for you to stop from having a good partner because of a jerk. world is not over yet. don't afraid of all the bad things. maybe you will be happy ever after. remember, life is uncertain, except for death and taxes.
2006-06-14 00:27:08 · answer #9 · answered by James Bond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not dating that has you hung up! its trusting another person! just go slow and get over the hurdles one at a time! I'm sure you'll surprise yourself on what you can accomplish!
Best of Luck :)
2006-06-14 00:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by carpenter2929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋