i like this guy and he said he likes me too (i duno if he still does) next time i hang out with him, im gonna kiss him on the cheek before i leave... i was just woundering if he doesnt like me more than a friend anymore, what would he say about it?or if he does still like me, would he say anything to me or not?
Would that scare him away?or u think i should do ti?
2006-06-13 17:15:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should never kiss a boy.,,,,they have germs
2006-06-13 17:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by stone cold 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are mainly three reasons why a guy who said he likes you hasn't kissed YOU yet:
-He doesn't feel that why anymore
-He hasn't gotten that far yet in his feelings
-He is too shy or scared to do it
If you kiss him first, on the cheek, he will know that you like him as more than just a friend. If he is REALLY shy, this might scare him away. If he is wants to kiss you but is too shy, it might help him get over his fears, since you will have let him know how you feel to an extent. If he isn't interested anymore, you will let him know that you are, and he will either be a man and tell you, or do the normal guy thing and ignore it, hoping it will resolve itself. If he is still working on his feelings for you, this may help him make the leap, or might at least let him know that you are interested in moving things to the next level, which will give him the green light to continue to pursue and develop his feelings for you.
Of course, he might be a little embarrassed, because a girl should never have to kiss the guy first. He should be sensitive enough to your feelings and your relationship to know when he needs to take the next step. But, it is usually good for the girl to let the guy know it would be OK...in your own special way...like the "kiss me" look you all seem to have....
2006-06-14 00:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by Don K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kiss my friends on the cheek all the time. I don't think it will scare him away in either situation. I think all boys like any contact from a girl, if they like them or not. I say go for it.
2006-06-14 00:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! If it does scare him away, then maybe he's too timid for a relationship. It might just help though. It might give him the confidence he needs to be more assertive, and express himself with you!!! Either way, you'll be able to tell more about what he's thinking and feeling for YOU....Isn't that what you want?
2006-06-14 00:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by PuffsJackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you first of all???? Online is the worst place to ask these kinds of questions!! How are we really suppose to give you good advice if we only know 1/2 the story
2006-06-14 00:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you are analyzing this way too much. Kiss him and see what happens. Don't try to think of what "might" happen if you do. Hell, nothing may happen or something great may happen but you won't know until you do it, no matter how many of us respond to you.
2006-06-14 00:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't let no one force you to do anything you don't want to do. My friend got pregnant and has a baby with a guy who treats her like dirt. Don't go down that road.
2006-06-14 00:19:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hug him as you do it, if it backfires, play it off like a friend thing. you know, a hug and a kiss on the cheek to say bye. cant hurt.
2006-06-14 00:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by meatwadswims 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your feeling him, go for it, he should reply with a smile or some kind of feeling of happiness. If he does, your in, if he doesnt, try not to see him again, save the embaressment
2006-06-14 00:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by Frenzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be up front and ask Him what he wants just ask Does he want a relationship or not? If not find someone else
E-mail me if you find out whats next dsheetsus@yahoo.com
2006-06-14 00:19:33 · answer #10 · answered by dsheetsus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey this is wat I would do... I would go for it and if he freaks out then say "they say a kiss on the cheek means "let's stay friends forever" but if he don't freak out in likes you still then make it up has you go... he he he
2006-06-14 00:19:19 · answer #11 · answered by latasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋