2006-06-13 17:14:32 · 18 answers · asked by Hot I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
the thing about marriage is that it's a union, an equal partnership. this isn't just her day, or her decision, or her future. it's for both of you. you HAVE to be honest with her. tell her how you feel.
good luck!
2006-06-13 17:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Thea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her NO! If she loves you she will stand by you but also don't make her wait for twenty years. I would leave also. At least give her what you would think is a respectable date to count on like next June so she can start planning a wedding, women are funny like that, they need to know the person they are with is one person they can count on. Do not whatsoever renege on that tentative date our you will be history for sure. If you do as I just said, you should have no more problems. I know because I'm a women and women's wiring is a little different than a mans! Good Luck.
2006-06-13 17:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
understand your gf.,girls are very eager to get married and so do i. I keep on telling to my bf to marry me all he can say is.,okay we will., But in the end is just a fight for both of us. My bf has no work now, although we are ready to have family coz i have job. But since i love him so much i know i cna wait., I love him so much and thats the reason until now i am waiting for her words. We are engaged fora lmost two years. planning is better than anything else. Try to talk to ur gf., express how much you love her(if you do so). Tell her that you wanted to but being a mn in a family should have enough work and capability to keep a family of your own.
2006-06-13 17:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by PArk Clark Homes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sorry guy but you better wait. If she's so demanding, she may not understand when you can't provide her something that she "wants." It may end up in divorce. I think both of you have a lot of maturing to do and marriage is not the best option. You should not feel rushed when getting into it!
2006-06-13 18:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it yet man. I was married on May 6th, and now I am miserable. My wife was very demanding and moody while we were engaged (It wasn't like that before she got the ring on her finger...we never fought). She is still that way. I can't do anything without her getting upset. Please consider waiting to get married. If she is like this now, she will be worse when you are married.
2006-06-14 01:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ben S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about getting married!If she is so demanding now how will she be after your married??Talk to her tell her the situation; and if she still can't understand; I would rethink the whole situation! Good Luck!
2006-06-13 21:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by Sugary14U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, if she's demanding now, she's gonna be even more so when you're married. Why does she want to get married so bad? When you find that out, you will be able to sort out what to do next. Today: pushy girlfriend, Tomorrow: nagging wife.
2006-06-13 17:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by catsup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let she bully you into it, it is a big decision thats for the rest of you life, she is probably scared in loosing you and thinks that if you get married you'll be hers for ever.i was like that and stopped.make her believe you really love only her.Im getting married on 17 June 2006. It is something you must be sure off.My parents paid for the wedding.Good luck anyway on your decision.
2006-06-14 01:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let a woman pressure you into marriage, especially when there's good reason why you're not getting married. If she's demanding now, she'll be demanding later........
2006-06-14 00:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boss, u can never guess what a woman's nature is. u just discuss with her the problem, if she loves u she will definately understand it and help u out. if u r financial weak, then after marriage u two can work make ur stand better.dont be disappointed with girls behaviour it will change after marriage. all the best
2006-06-14 01:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by raj.bng 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the word of a partly wise older person who struggled a lot with money when first got married..... if you cant right now DONT !!! be honest and firm about wanting to wait till you get a few things settled in the money department...... take my word for it, she will resent the fact , after marriage, that there is no extra money, to be honest , I was one of those....... talk to her, set out a simple plan to go by..... saving a certain amount of money each month TOGETHER, set a goal, when that goal is reached, set the date and stick to it...... if she wants marriage that much, then she should be willing to help you get out of what ever monetary problems you have that are standing in your way...... God bless
2006-06-13 18:06:37 · answer #11 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋