My child is four year and i havent been with his father for about the same amount of year but now that he know that im not wanting him he want me im in a relationship and dont know what to do i cant go backward i want to go forward he trying eveything to be with me
2006-06-13 17:12:46 · 20 answers · asked by baby girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my opion is keep moving forward he wasn't right then he isn't right now you and your child maybe better off this way not knowing the whole situation but I'm assuming theres a good reason why your not together you should look back at that reason and decide if this is still a reason not to get back together.and ask your self is it worth putting your emotions on the line again do what you think is best for you and your child
2006-06-13 17:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_baby_girl_19802001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question dear. You said that you can't go backwards because you want to go forward, so just do it!!! Leave that sexual relationship where it belongs, in the past. You said that you don't want him so there is nothing to think about. Or are you having second thoughts about wanting to rekindle your relationship?? If you aren't, then you need to take a stand with moving on with your life with your new man.
2006-06-14 00:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by larozz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be with him...are you trying to fight the feeling...does he want to try to make amends for his mistake in letting you go in the first place?Most importantly,is he a good father...does he want to be a part of the childs life and be there always?Ask him that...tell him that's more important to you than just sex.You/your child need stability in your lives...this ain't "in n out burgers"!Don't give in easily-find out what his true intentions are then go from there.Try not to get intimate so fast...he's been away for four years-you can't just let him back in without a fight....
2006-06-14 00:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to move on. There is reasons why we call people are ex's. Leave the past in the past. You have obviously done fine without him. So find yourself a new man don't go back to what youv'e already had.
2006-06-14 00:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by Maimee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just after you again to get some tail at the stage you at and then he'll be content for another 4 years...dont do it...I got 3 kids 3 different moms and married to one.after a few years he would have been nailing you for all your adult life.
2006-06-14 00:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by B-Wizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong, I met guys like him before. He sounds like the type that wants what he can't have, and if he can have it, he cannot appreciate it. Don't let him confuse you and get away from him unless he can really find a really, really, good reason why you should be together.
2006-06-15 22:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him and you think he is the man for you then try to make it work if not leave it all alone and find a Godly good man that will be there for you and your daughter but dont leave out baby daddy from daughters life.
2006-06-14 00:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by Justin D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with him unless you want another child with him. Sounds like too much baby-daddy-drama.
2006-06-14 00:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dear, If he hasn't been around for the past 4 years, and it was no fault of your own, you need to tell him to get lost!
2006-06-14 00:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by amondriscoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him try... if you don't care about him in that way then ignore him don't let his sweetness get in the way.. but like I said if you don't care about him and that way... I mean it's been 4 years to you it could seem like days or a lifetime depending on how long you was waiting on him to return...
2006-06-14 00:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by latasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋