my grandmas dying and im 11 can some one give me info on how to help me in the way of getting throught it?

Answer 1

When my grandma died I was 10 , and it was the worst thing that had ever happened to me. I was focused on how alone, and sad I felt. As I grew older I realized that dying is just passing from here to eternity. It's not awful, and the thing to focus on is that she will be in a better place, a place where there is no more sickness and pain, and a place where she will never grow old. That is hard because you are going to miss her, but try to concentrate on the fact that she is still alive in a happier place and she still loves you. Love doesn't die when people pass from this world.

Answer 2

Hun I Have Been Thro The Same Thing And I Soothed Her And Told Her How Much U Love Her And Give her Kisses And Tell Her U WIll See Her Up There When U Go Just Show Her Love

Answer 3

I am so sorry to hear about your grandmother. Try and spend as much time with her as you're allowed. It may make you feel bad, and it may sometimes get messy, but you'll be able to say later as an adult that you were really there for your grandmother in the end. While you are spending time with your grandmother, share with her all the special moments that you spent with her, and how you'll think of those moments fondly forever. Tell her you love her, as often as possible!! Your grandma is lucky to have such a sweet granddaughter.

Answer 4

My deepest thoughts and prayers to you and your family. I remember when my aunt died when I was 11. She was my favorite aunt and to this day because she lived with us, I can still remember going into her room the day of the funeral and calling her name just because I could not believe she was really gone. Feel what you need to feel, cry as much as you need or want to, and then hold onto all the most wonderful things that you loved about your grandma. The best I can offer is know that if she had the choice in this matter, she would be right besides you loving and caressing you.........

Answer 5

Ok just let her go I know it sounds harsh and im not meaning it literally I am 15 and last year I lost my best friend the guy I loved in a car wreck he was only 14 and I cried for a month but it did no good nothing is gonna bring em back.Hey can you do something for me? Go to yahoo music type in artist Diamond Rio and the song is God Only Cries and listen to it and maybe it'll give you a better answer than I can.

Answer 6

DON'T LISTEN TO JESS. Your grandma would be very disappointed in you. I am so sorry, sweetie. Talk to your family, or to one member of it in particular (whoever you feel closest to) about your feelings, and if you have a best or particularly close friend, let them know what's going on with you and talk to them too; if you go to church (or even if you don't), talk to God, He is the most understanding friend you will ever have. If you do not already do so, start a journal about your feelings and thoughts, and write down memories of your grandma, about happy and special times you spent with her, about advice she has given you over the years, about her smile and the things you like to do best when you see her; if she ever baked or cooked anything special at any time of the year such as special cookies, cakes, whatever, write about how they taste and the memories you associate with them; include the recipies if possible. Whenever you get to go see her (I hope you are being allowed to do so) be sure you tell her you love her and tell her how special she makes you feel. Remember, too, that it's okay to cry when you need to. Best of luck to you, dear, we will all be praying for you.

Answer 7

Well sweetie I know it is going to be hard I was 40 when I lost my Grandmommy and it hurt but, I got through it. It will be sad but, always remember she will always live in your mind and in your heart! She will be looking down on you every night while you are sleeping ...Talk about her after she is gone and don't stop if there is a story someone is telling and she is in it don't stop cause of that continue the story and you will see it will be ok. I am so sorry for the pain you will have.

Answer 8

My Grandmother died last year. She was awake, and I watched her pass. It took many many months to feel comfortable with it at all. But My advice is spend lots of time with your parents, and ask them lots of questions about when your grandma was young and what she was like. Also ask them any questions you have about what you are feeling. It is very important to understand everything you will feel. Also, if you are religious, it helps to pray. Sometimes when I was lonely I would talk to thin air hoping she would hear me and guide me through my time. Whether or not this worked, it sure made me feel better.

THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS TO SPEND AS MUCH TIME WITH HER WHILE SHE IS STILL ALIVE AS POSSIBLE! TELL HER YOU LOVE HER!!!!

I sure wish I did that more often.

Best of luck, friend.

Answer 9

That's very sad, but -depending on how old she is- it's probably just her time. Everyone has one and some people know theirs, others don't. You just have to hang in, brace yourself, and spend time with her before she passes on. You can also talk to your mom or dad, or grandpa, if he's alive. You could even talk to a school counselor. Any of those people can talk with you and will understand. Most of them went through the same or similar thing. Be strong!

Answer 10

I was 10 when my grandmother died. Keep something that reminds you of her close by, so you can hold it and look at it anytime. Talk to your parents or a counselor about it if you feel like you need to. You will get through the grieving process sooner than you think. It will all be okay very soon. Good luck!