I really dont wanna call my girlfriend back for the fifth time today.she wants me to call agien in 10 minutes....I have a friend with me and i want him to call her and give a reason that i cant call her. what shall he say
2006-06-13 16:41:30 · 39 answers · asked by xxtrole 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's in the shower.....or, he doesnt feel good and is laying on the couch.....or the best yet....The truth ! MEN CAN BE POLITE TOO YOU KNOW!!! We women like that, realness, and redpect. We may act like we don't sometimes, but we do!!! Jen
2006-06-13 16:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well not to be pissy at you.. you should just simply tell her if these fone calls could calm down.. cause you need sometime for yourself at some point... and making excuses is just going to make everything werse.. cause if she finds out it was a lie then ur pretty much done for... and lying isnt going to take your relationship any further.. yea yea i know what ur saying.. you have to deal with this all the F#@$%* time and its nerve recking.. but if your ever going to be honest.. do it politely.. in away that wont hurt her.. i cant give u a suggestion of how to approach her cause i dont know her and how she would react on what ur abt to say.. you know her more than anyone so give it a shot or just take the wimpy way put and have ur friend get u out of "your" mess...
2006-06-13 16:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan Dudhnath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...what kind of a boyfriend are you? Be honest with your girlfriend, tell her that you think that the two of you don't need to talk as much as you do on the telephone. That's a suggestion, but don't have your friend call her and tell her something, how stupid would he look to her for doing that? He looks pretty stupid to me if he's going to go with you on this, but hey what are friends for? Your girlfriend deserves better than that to be having you over there making a joke out of her and instead of being on the phone telling her this, you're devising a plan with your best friend and also looking on Yahoo! for answers on how to deceive her. Break up with her if you can't stand how needy she is or just let her know that if she'd like to talk to you and keep up with you as much as she does then maybe she should try e-mailing you or hanging out with you for a couple of hours. Maybe she needs to get you in and out of her system. Good luck with this.
2006-06-13 16:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. You've already called 4 times and you have other things you need or want to do. It's not you are trying to ignore her but you have to have a life and some space just to live. If she is that overbearing, dude, you need to think twice about keeping her around.
2006-06-13 16:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goodness, she is a needy young thing isn't she. Fifty calls in one day. She sounds very insecure. You have a couple of choices. You can not call her and not have your friend call her. Or you could call her and tell her you will talk to her tomorrow, but that you are busy just now. I don't know that having your friend call is necessarily a good idea.
2006-06-13 16:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by dkrgrand 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend sounds needy/clingy. You need to be very truthful with her and tell her you need some time to spend with a friend. I would think twice about marrying anyone I had to check in with every hour. Just some advice for down the road in the future..just in case.
2006-06-13 16:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her and say "Hey I didn't want to leave you hanging, but I really can't talk right now because I have company." That way you are showing her respect and courtesy. If she isn't okay with that then maybe she needs to learn a little something about respect and courtesy herself.
2006-06-13 16:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by Ready2Go 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply call her back and tell her the truth. That you're with a friend, you've talked to her several times today, and that you'll talk to her tomorrow. Don't forget to tell her good night too.
2006-06-13 16:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one, you shouldn't have your friend call her. that's really immature. Just call her yourself and tell her that you have already talked to her four times today and that you have company and will call her tomorrow. if she cant be cool and understanding about that, then shes a bit** and needs the boot.
2006-06-13 16:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by ☼♥Manda♥☼ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a call tomorrow when your friend is gone and explain that you had company. Trust me, it will be the best thing that you can do for both of you's.
2006-06-13 16:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by Veronica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋