Crys!!! Why cant i find a boyfriend. I want one so bad and im like the only girl in school who doesn't have one. Im 13 years old and i have dark brown hair and eyes. I love to laugh and help everyone as much as i can. I love all kinds of things and to have fun. Im 5'2 and not a good dancer. I love all kinds of movies and music. i'm average weight also. So whats wrong with "sniff sniff" and why cant i find some one who likes me. Help me Please!!!
2006-06-13 16:23:47 · 42 answers · asked by apw_lovedove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie--first of all, I want to offer my sympathy--I was there myself.
Now--second--you're 13 years old. Did you know I didn't have my first boyfriend until I graduated from High School at 17? Baby, you have PLENTY of time to worry about that. Right now, boys aren't quite mature enough to want to date I think. There is NOTHING wrong with you. There is absolutely nothing strange about your situation.
From the sounds of it, you're very pretty, and trust me, you'll only get more beautiful as you get older. I used to be five foot tall, a size 13 in jeans, with a REALLY round face, short-bobbed hair (never use that combination...looks dorky....*facepaw*), and I wore stuff I didn't look good in.
Now, I'm still five foot tall, I wear a size 5/7, depending on the brand, my hair is long, and I know what looks good. My face is still round, but my fiancee likes that.
Trust me hon--this is just the start to your life--you have plenty of time to worry about men--just relax, let them come to you, and for now, have fun with your friends, work hard in school and try to stay out of trouble. You're still a kid--don't grow up too fast--you'll only end up regretting it.
2006-06-13 16:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are 13 years old and you are way to young to feel this depressed about not having boyfriend. Believe me there are more important things in life. Enjoy this time you have to be young and have fun with your friends and your freedom. There will be plenty of time for you to find a man just try not to settle for the first one that comes your way. Be patient, have fun, and when are least expecting something to happen it will. Good luck I wish you the best. Got any other questions for me I'm an expert on these boy problems.
2006-06-13 16:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by alliciabro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, Honey cakes there isn't anything wrong with you ....You describe yourself beautifully, and you sound extremely special with a heart to match, but I also think that there are reasons why a guy hasn't come around for you to pay attention to .as of yet...You are being protected by your angel of brains!!!!!...You say that you are the only girl in your school who has not found a boyfriend..You should Celebrate that you are not being distracted and are able to study!!!!.Stop looking....Stop crying ! you are young and have the world by the tail.....You sound like the only girl in school that has a smarts!!!!!Stay away from the boys for now....unless you find yourself just a guy friend to hang with...As you have your whole life in front of you to be grown up later!You are very blessed and too much so to cry over not having a guy just yet...Sit back and play it cool for awhile and watch and listen to your so called friends and classmates who are rushing things a bit...Learn from their mistakes! And keep smiling as you watch all the drama play out in their lives around you ! And be glad that you are not giving into their same bad choices...Hold out until you are older to have a so called BF....Please take it easy and don't be in hurry to grow up too soon...You will be old for a lot longer than you will be young and believe me it isn't that much fun getting old... so if you can, try to have fun being young and relish the age you are right now...with some girlfriends...Please don't wishyour life away,,,or throw your precious youth down the toliet to some pimply geeky guy who will not matter in your life later....there is plenty of time left for you to enjoy adult things ,hopefully much later, so you can love the way you are now for awhile .....And let that right guy find you when you aren't looking....Remember a watched pot never boils....
Keep your chin up!
2006-06-13 17:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure ur not the ONLY one in ur whole school who doesn't have a boyfriend. You will get a boyfriend when it's time, U really shouldn't be a a rush to have a b/f.
and with all that going for u it will happen when it happens. So just enjoy your summer and stop worrying about having a boy. One day when it happens u may have more then u can handle
2006-06-13 16:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the age of 13 I found myself in your place. My call of desperation was answered by an 18 year who would become the father of my 1st born. I am not saying that you mind is on sex but you should know that it is people in the world that look for young girls as yourself. You have plenty of time to find true love. Never desire something because it seems everyone else is doing it. You have plenty of time to find someone to date. Believe me school is the most important worry you have at this age. Look yourself in the mirror every morning and know that you are beautiful and you are complete just the way you are. Your time to date will come.
2006-06-13 16:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by frmme2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you want it as bad as you do, you can't help but send out a very strong "needy" vibe, and right or wrong, it's a total turn off. Everybody wants the one they can't have. Guys like a challenge. Needy people present no challenge at all.
Take a break from your search. Spend time learning about you. Find out what you like to do that makes you happy, all by yourself or with good friends. As soon as you forget about finding somebody, you'll start sending out the right vibes again. Next thing you know, guys will be bugging you non-stop, especially if they think you're not interested in them!
2006-06-13 16:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by 'Schmod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you other than you think a boyfriend will make you somehow happier. Get real, there is plenty of time for that stuff, right now, enjoy the present, make the most of what you have, find out who you are before you get into any relationship. The harder you try, the longer it will be until you find a guy for you.
2006-06-13 16:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by cherryblossommmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cry. U will find someone soon. But don't LOOK 4 a boyfriend. They always seem 2 come around when u aren't looking. Believe me this works. This happened with all of my relationships. Once I stop looking for a boyfriend they seem 2 come out of the woodwork!LOL so don't worry. U r still young and u will have many boyfriends so don't rush they will come! GoodLuck!
2006-06-13 16:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by I♥myPitbulls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you should be crying over not having a guy? No offense, but that's not really anything to cry about. Why do you want to go out with a guy who is going to dump you a few weeks or months later? Don't you just wanna wait until your older so you can find love that's forever and not for like a few months?
2006-06-13 16:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying so hard. Believe me you're not the only 13 year old girl without a boyfriend. There's nothing wrong with you. Just continue to be yourself and stop looking for a boyfriend. They will come around eventually.
2006-06-13 16:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by Tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋