My boyfriend isn't answering my texts. He's home visiting his family, and I don't want to be paranoid, but it's going on fou hours since he's responded. I'm not prying or being annoying.. I just want to make sure he's okay. It's hard for me to calm down because a million things can run through your mind when you don't hear from someone you love. I'm just so worried. Has this ever happened with anyone else?
2006-06-13 16:13:04 · 13 answers · asked by uhhsure8701 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
YES! my boyfriend and i got into a fight and his phone died and he was no where that i could call him and the whole night i was calling his phone and all i got was his answering service and i couldnt calm down at all. but trust me everything will be okay, hes probably having a good time with his family and left his phone with his stuff.... or maybe he has drank a lil too much and passed out on the couch, either way im sure you will talk to him soon. try to take a bath and calm down and im sure by tomorrow mornin everything will be okay!
2006-06-13 16:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by ashlynpower 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes i know exactly how you feel i dont no your age but i am female and 40 and i still have issues regarding this type of thing not so much now as i did 5 yrs ago but yes you feel like he is ignoring you or is with someone else or dont care that you are waiting for a return call or text even though he is with his family it would only take a second to respond to you unless his phone is dead or sometimes there isnt any service. but also you have displayed that you may be insucure in your relationship or with your self. you dont wanna become so paranoid or over baring because you could end up pushing him away. good luck to you, lanay
2006-06-13 23:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by lnay69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But you are prying, and being annoying, give him space! what are you worried about? he'll get back to you when he wants to, then you can ask him why he didn't text sooner, but,, you are being clingy by bugging him like that, and it sounds like you are insecure, and that is not appealing to a guy, he'll just back away from you, you may need to talk to someone about your insecurities, because if that is what is going on, you need to work it out, if he cares about you, he will get back to you, if he doesn't, or doesn't get a hold of you when he returns home, do you need a guy like that anyway? NO, but I do know that if he told you he is going to visit his family for the weekend, let him to do, don't smuther him, good luck
2006-06-13 23:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by shelly65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I worried about my husband so badly when I was prego with my oldest it literally put me into labor. He and my brother in law (idiot) went to a casino. They said they were going to be back by midnight that same night. Well, come 11 am the next day I was absolutely in a panic. I had this whole story in my head. I though they had won big and someone had seen and followed them out and killed them and took their money. I literally worried so badly that my water broke 6 weeks early. All was fine with the baby but since then my hubby has never forgot to call when he was going to be late!
2006-06-13 23:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by mom_of_4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ive freaked out tons with my bf when he wouldnt respond to me immediatly. He's wtih his family, that is the best place he could be if he isnt with u. Breathe. and do something to suprise him with when he gets back. A present, plan a date, a welcome home party, do something u know he loves- It will keep u preoccupied. Just dont call or text him too much or he'll get annoyed and start ignoring u on purpose. Keep ur cool. Answer some questions on yahoo and keep urself busy.
2006-06-13 23:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by Passionately Vulnerable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must say, if you were texting me as you have been him, I'd dump you the minute I got back from visiting family.
You sound like a stalker - give the man breathing room. Are his family all murderers? Are they all in Sing Sing?
They're probably all sitting around his cell phone reading your latest text message and convincing him that you're nuts.
2006-06-13 23:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by MillwoodsGal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..but mostly when I worry when my children are sick.Since they are grown now I'm unable to control their health like I could when they were children and I sometimes make myself sick with worry when they go for tests etc..and nothing ever ends up wrong..thank goodness..I have to listen to them tease me..but it doesn't matter.
2006-06-13 23:19:06 · answer #7 · answered by Georgia Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it has, jus stop callin 4 awhile n let his fone breathe ok (not tryna b funny lol) den wait for awhile (i kno i kno u've already waited jus keep on) dnt call him n e more till da nex day, den if he doesnt call bac, den sumtin mus b wrong. he's either cheatin, really busy, or jus doesnt want to ansa. But dnt go fully crazy jus try to keep calm n do otha things. den wen he does call, u can eitha let him explain, or GO OFF! lmao if he doesnt call, wait till he gets bac den still GO OFF!
ok best of wishes, n hope he calls
2006-06-13 23:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by phsycowoman33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For Christ's sake, turn off your phone. leave him alone. he's spending time with his family. nothing has happened to him except someone in his family has gotten pissed at him text messaging instead of spending time with them and has taken his phone away from him.
Go get your own life, sweetie.
2006-06-13 23:18:30 · answer #9 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,it has happened to me,but once he called he said he was busy playing baseball for is tournament.witch i understood.but i was worried,just try to give him some time and after a day or two try again.he could be busy.
2006-06-13 23:17:56 · answer #10 · answered by lele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋