How do ya'll feel about being with a boy who has a baby. Somebody told me that they always tend to go back with they baby mama. Is this true??
2006-06-13 16:10:49 · 16 answers · asked by Tbaby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would take a confident secure and in it for the long haul type of person. While you will have to put up with his ex you will also be a role model in thier chids life. If you are not in it for a while then don't bother, don't waste your time or the kids. If you decide to stay and make a family then be mature when some situations arise, always take the high road, butt-out when you should, and be responsible with the child.
Good luck.
2006-06-13 16:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by Brianne 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your b/f or perspective b/f. He may have no interest in her and the baby was just unexpected so he should be taking care of the baby, and if he is that says a lot about him as a person. A lot of guys don't take care of their babies if they are not "together" with the mom, so take it as a sign that he will treat you with respect since he is treating others with respect. but if you can't feel comfortable with the idea that this other woman will always be a part of his life then you shouldn't date him because it wouldn't be right to try to keep him away from the mother of his child.
2006-06-13 23:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by Beccawho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"With they baby mama." You mean with the baby's mother? Sorry, you must be from another country. I just wanted to understand what you were saying.
If the "boy" --- was married to the baby's mother and they were divorced, then they probably will not get back together unless he sees going back to the mother would be better than paying child support. He is paying child support, right?
If he wasn't married to the baby's mother, then he's not a "boy" you would want to be with. If he is not mature enough to accept his responsibilities, then why would you want him?
2006-06-13 23:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like this is a guy who is not too bright, not too responsible, not too good at making wise choices, and very lacking in self control. With all the information available on birth control, there is no excuse for "a boy" to be a father.
Here is some information on condoms, birth control, infection, safer sex, abstinence and other alternatives to intercourse, how to talk to your partner about sexual issues ... even a video on how to CORRECTLY apply a condom.
http://www.teenwire.com/
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
2006-06-13 23:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they do not always go back with the baby mama. but i wouldnt get involved with a person who already has kids unless you're ready for that responsibility
2006-06-13 23:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by mslady89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 17 and you are tying yourself up with a guy with a baby??? Why??? Believe me there are a lot better men in the sea that know how to keep their wigglies from making babies.
2006-06-13 23:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. my husband has a baby and he dont go back. it depends on the man and how much he loves u. my husband wont go around her or call if im not in the same room.
2006-06-15 20:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by caramel_sexy20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they always have to be in touch cus of the baby but how does he do it ? r u involved with him and baby when mom is around ?
2006-06-13 23:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... but you have to see what he does as an example to how he's going to treat you... did he abandon the baby... does he see the baby... does he bad mouth the mother?
2006-06-13 23:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by Fatboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not 100% true.. i like baby... if u like the father n the baby, y not??
2006-06-13 23:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by eiraz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋