In fact she calls me all day on my work ext, we have kissed many times and she comes over once a week. She claims she in love with her fiancee yet she tells me she loves me also. Time span 2 months , she gets married in July.
2006-06-13 16:06:43 · 28 answers · asked by robase98 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Weird? No. Sad? Yes. She's clearly a mess and needs to feel loved. She wants it all and isn't going to make much of a wife or love interest for anyone at this point in time.
2006-06-13 16:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by drusilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird isn't the word I would choose....but that's not the question.
It is not appropriate behavior for an engaged woman, that's for sure. She's cheating on her fiancee with you in the months before her wedding. Imagine what would happen if the groom to be found out.
I say, stop going out with her. If she wants to kiss, call and spend time with you, then she shouldn't be getting married.
She needs to talk with her fiancee...but that's between them.
You're getting into deep waters....I hope you can swim.
2006-06-13 23:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by Toybear_mav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be her last fling... or you could be her second thoughts about her fianscee
If you're in this to be her man, find out what she means by the word "love". Then you can move from there and put on the heat or make a real move...
If you're not in this for anything special, then who cares? Let her screw up her own relationship since she's obviously on the way to screwing up her marriage.
2006-06-13 23:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by Eugene G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy thats something to be concerned about. She doesn't sound like a woman who's in love & who's going to be getting married in a month. You may want to have a talk with her.
2006-06-13 23:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her! Leave before you start becoming really attatched. She is most definitely a player. Although, if she truly loves her fiance, she wouldn't be with you. But then again...if she truly loves you, she wouldn't be with her fiance. Anyway, just back off the woman.
2006-06-13 23:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by Arabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurry up, at best you only have a month and 1/2 to get in her pants
2006-06-13 23:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by lovesyourdiamond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..frist of all ask yourself if she is willing to do that to her fiance wouldnt she do it again...maybe to you? Think about what you are willing to risk for this realtionship and what you will get out of it. If you think the benefits outwiegh the risk, then go ahead. But dont be suprised if your heart is broken! MayMay
2006-06-13 23:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by MayMay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its normal to have feelings for a fellow worker even though shes engaged who know thing might not work out and she may need a friend like you in her time of need.
2006-06-13 23:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what u should do bro? .. play the player, use her and get all the honey u can get, and then let it be it whenever she likes to go u'll be happy,but, dont u spend money on her thats a very important point cuz then u'll be paying for it.
2006-06-13 23:14:20 · answer #9 · answered by maiga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she loves him or you.
It is TOTALLY weird if shes saying that stuff.
Draw the line and let her decide and say you WILL NOT ALLOW HER TO CHEAT ON HER HUSBAND!!!
Restraining orders are useful too.
2006-06-13 23:13:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋