how old is mature enough to french kiss a very TRUSTED boyfriend i hav dated for 2 months and known for 7 yrs?

Question

im 14, i hav known him since i was 7 and so i really no him, i want to take it to a next step, french kissin, no further than that, for now....

HE WILL NOT LEAD ME TO SEX ! i o him and wud never let him do that

Answer 1

If you think you're old enough and he won't pressure you into doing anything more than you are comfortable with then go for it, especially if he is someone that when you are older you will feel glad your first kiss was with him.

Answer 2

Mine may not be a good advice especially when I am Asian where kissing is not a privilege thing to do. However, I started french kissing when I was 12 and it was a blast! We did not even end up making love but enjoyed all the kisses moments we had. Trust me, now I am the best french kisser my boyfriend ever had! Ask him! It is fine to start early - kissing I mean. Have fun but be sure that that is what you want and he wants it too.

Answer 3

If you have carefully considered how taking your relationship to the next level will affect all aspects of your relationship, and you've discussed it with your boyfriend, then you're old enough and mature enough. However, as to the "for now," make sure you know all of the possible outcomes of sexual activity before you engage in it. I'm 18, and my last relationship lasted over a year without bringing sex into the mix. If your boyfriend truly cares about you, he won't pressure you.

Answer 4

I don't know if 14 is old enough to french kiss. I mean, a 14 year old can be mature but I'd say to hold back on that. I mean, it's OK to hug him I guess, but I don't know about french kissing. What if he thinks you want things to speed up a bit? You might find yourself in a situation you really dont wanna be in.

But hey, girl, it's your life. You do what you want...just be careful.

Answer 5

At 14 you may be old enough if this is something you really want to do and feel comfortable doing. But, once you get started you may feel tempted to go further than you intend to right now at your computer. Make it clear that the kissing is as far as you are ready to go right now.

Answer 6

Go for it. But really just so you know. There is a good chance he'll try to take it to the next level. Just remember to say no. From here on out boys will always want more. Good Luck and be smart.

Answer 7

I got news for you dear...
First of all you are already too young to be doing this and get this involved...
This can lead to rape because of your age...
I was going to say age 18 when you no longer have to rely on what your mother says, because while living under her roof and obeying her rules and her paying for everything to raise you, you better start acting respectful of your mom or she can throw that boy in jail if he gets you pregnant...
I already went through this with my daughter and she was 18, so I would say to you to wait a few more years till you can do what you want and not be in legal trouble...

Answer 8

i continuously imagine its so humorous at the same time as human beings say 'french kiss'. ok, so that you're 14. that's quite out of my territory, reason i'm adverse to courting lower than 17. lol, sorry. do although feels proper (no longer merely bodily)

Answer 9

Whenever you feel comfortable with it, it's a good way to show you love each other, but be careful, because it sometimes leads to other things which will just end up causing pain and regret.

Answer 10

Listen to your heart, wait for the right moment, you can get not only the french kiss but also a perfect and memorial one!!!