neither of us have children but he has expressed a desire to one day marry and have kids.
2006-06-13 15:39:29 · 16 answers · asked by nu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, if you have some eggs left, let him have one. and about the age thing- if he smoke then dont worry cause hes just around your age internally.
2006-06-13 15:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by thepopcornplaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 43 yrs young myself. The first thing that comes to mind is this. .
"If you have to ask, chances are you allready know !" Right? but seriously Right? I know that women can have babies well into their primes, whatever that is for you, is up to you. Statistics indicate that women will live up to ten (10) years longer than men on average. So if this was a perfect world you both would meet the end at approx the same time. At this time in your life rhe question is do you want to be chasing your children around in your 50s-60s like most people do 25 years earlier? Best of luck on this one
2006-06-14 08:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by colvonryansa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really have feeling for him- you need to set down and really communicate. I am presently in the same boat so to speak because I will be 55 June 18th and he is 44. He said it doesn't matter but then we neither of us want more children. You also have to look at what both of your familys will think.
2006-06-13 15:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by niowara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should tell him! He likes you, of course, or is it that you think that he wont accept that number? I mean, if you feel good about each other, then the age is nothing! And belive me sweetie, if age is a problem for him, then he doesnt deserves you because he doenst really now what he wants, if he wants a woman or just a number.
God bless you!
2006-06-13 15:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Shannella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how serious you two are. if you really think this is going to go somewhere and he cares about you, tell him. I don't think a ten year age difference is anything that would break up a relationship, but if you truly care for him you should be honest before not telling him becomes a problem, especially if he wants kids and you think you are past that point in your life...
good luck :)
2006-06-13 15:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by livingandloving 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell him. Leading him further into the relationship without telling him would be hurtful to him. Especially if he wants kids and I assume you do not.
2006-06-13 15:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by girlysledgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, otherwise there will be no future. A relationship built on a lie (by omission) will not allow trust to be built.
2006-06-13 15:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by Tracy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if you two love each other then he shouldn't care really. like my mom says as long as if your over 21 it don't matter what the age you are and who it is as long as if he is over 21 =)>!
2006-06-13 15:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by dentedhalo7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it doesn't bother him it shouldn't bother you. You might mention it to him casually so he will know that he needs to marry you sooner if he wants to have kids.
2006-06-13 15:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by reallyfedup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to fess up kids at your age wont be easy for u
2006-06-13 15:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋