I'm involed with 2 people who i care alot for. I've been with one guy for 4 years and the other one i knew for 6 years but just started dating 3 months ago and I think I love them both and I dont know which one 2 choose because they both make me happy.
2006-06-13 15:30:51 · 13 answers · asked by sweetempiation 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you feel you're at a point where you have to choose? You're just dating right now so it really depends on how forthright you want to be with them. They both make you happy and you feel you may be in love with both of them. For some people, that's a pretty comfortable place to be.
If you have to choose between the two of them, try this: who are you more like yourself around? If you're not sure, ask your friends who you act more like yourself with - they'll know. After that, it's all down hill.
2006-06-13 20:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by David 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not in my world but thats me. I only love 1 at a time. If there was more than 1 I wouldn't be in love with either. I'd just be having a good time. People that say they've been there are not in love with either one. They choose the one that is most convenient or condusive to their life style and will eventually move on. Fidelity is the answer...@!@
2006-06-13 15:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be a tricky thing. You really need to spend some time analyzing your relationship with both of these guys. You need to choose one and be honest with both of them about the fact that you have been deceiving them.
I know that sounds hard, but it is the only fair thing to do for them and yourself. They will appreciate it in the long run, and so will you.
2006-06-13 15:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by John G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're choosing between 2 people - then you are inlove with neither. To me, the love I have for a person is so deep and strong that I can't offer or share it with someone else.
2006-06-13 15:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a growing polyamory movement happening now. So I guess some people are in love with more than 2 people but they do know what to do and it works out for everyone.
2006-06-13 15:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they both make you happy then don't pick because that will just end up making the other one dis-like you or some sort. just tell them that they are both good friends and you can't choose between them. if they love you they will understand.
2006-06-13 15:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by dentedhalo7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in that predicament several times yes its possible. Tell each one how you feel about the other and the one who stays is the one you should choose honesty is best.
2006-06-13 15:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by sexy chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say yes, because i've been there. The choice you need to make is who. Go from your heart for this one. Not looks. Who in your heart do you want to be with?
2006-06-13 15:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by daniel a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be in love with 2 ppl at the same time. but sooner or later things will get even more difficult like they aren't already. dont burn the candle at both ends cuz sooner or later you will get burned
2006-06-13 15:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by amby pamby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to choose.
then you need to face the one you didnt choose and be able to tell him the truth about why you dont think you have a future together.
all else, flip a coin...
2006-06-13 18:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by The Seitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋