2006-06-13 15:25:41 · 17 answers · asked by daniel a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not not at all. My boyfriend tells me not to get drunk with out him there, its not a bad thing it just means that you care about her and don't want anything to happen to her. You're not controlling you just love so much that you want what is best for her.
2006-06-13 15:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ashlee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, that is not wrong at all and if she has a problem with it chances are she is smoking weed with them behind your back. Ask her nicely and explain why, tell her you don't want a girlfriend that smokes weed, you want a clean, drug-free girl.
2006-06-13 15:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your fiance tell you that it's wrong?
Which is it that you don't like, her pot-smoking friends or her smoking pot?
I'll just assume that you don't want your fiance to smoke pot.
Weed is largely a social drug; chances are if they smoke it, they will encourage her to join in. She can refuse, but how can you trust her?
Since you're not married yet, you can try to alter her behavior by telling her that you don't like her pot smoking friends. If she respects you, she will continue to see her doper friends but will not join in when they pass the roach around. In other words, you shouldn't tell her outright that you forbid her to see any of her friends (because friends are hard to come by) but ask her to refrain from smoking pot when it's offered. See what she does.
If you're really gonna marry this girl, you have to trust her word.
2006-06-13 15:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Siddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong. What has her friends got to do with her smoking it. Furthermore their her friends not yours. How about trust, where does that come in. Are these "friends" smoking weed in her presence or not. Lots of factors here. You don't own her either......
2006-06-13 15:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my opinion yes. She is an adult and should be able to make her own decisions. If you do not like her hanging out with pot smoking friends, perhaps she is not the right person for you. Never try to change people. Learn to accept them and love them for their own unique selves.
2006-06-13 15:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say yes. I think that you should let your feelings be known and let her decide what she wants to do. But a lot of men don't like their women to make their own choices and this isn't good for the overall health of the relationship.
2006-06-13 15:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by noitall147 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! they r smoking weed what do u think?! she needs to stay away from them if they r!! do some stuff with her and sit her down and talk about it.
2006-06-13 15:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but perhaps you could just ask that she not will not smoke. Of course, asking is never bad; telling is.
2006-06-13 15:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by angry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't hang out with them, how is she gonna smoke with them?
2006-06-13 15:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... it sounds amazing that you have her best intrest at heart... but you can't keep her from these people... so try to have faith in her no matter what...
2006-06-13 15:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by Fatboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋