He buys me dinner, opens doors for me, tells me that he wants to get married to me as soon as possible and have kids together, he and I each have two kids from our ex's, tells me about his deepest thoughts, we have talked about opening our own bakery together, etc, but then sometimes his behavior is off like not calling me when he says he will. He works very hard at his job 72+ a week, so that does play a factor, we haven't had sex yet. Does he honestly like me or is his just passing the time with me?
2006-06-13 15:21:50 · 15 answers · asked by yadirajosie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to tell you the truth, i would say he DOES like you.. but you two clearly have some issues to work out with one another!
2006-06-13 15:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a peice of paper and make two columns Pros and Cons. You put the good thing he does and that you see under pros and the opposites under cons. If you see a lot of dratic changes then wake up some and slow down before you get any farther in the relationship than you need to be. It also sounds like he may be after any money he can get from you. You would just be supporting his other children and putting more into the relationship than he is. What's to ay he won't do the same to you?
2006-06-13 15:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by niowara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is going to great lengths to impress you. As to whether he likes you, that is harder to answer. My advice is to enjoy his company and get to know him. Take your time. No need to rush to the chapel and get married. If what he feels is genuine, and you feel the same way, it will only get better by waiting.
You both have ex's which means you've struggled in relationships in the past (haven't we all?) Maybe spend some time examining what went wrong in those relationships.
Working on those issues together could be a great way to build trust and strength in this relationship.
2006-06-13 15:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by John G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 03:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to take into consideration that he works aLOT of hours a week and people don't realize that a relationship is also work and also takes time to nurture... So the question is not do he likes you but does he have time for you and the kids
2006-06-13 15:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by style P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, I personally think this guy has feelings for you but, I have been there and you are going to have to give him time. If he truely likes you he will eventually come forth and tell you. The guy I'm with did the same stuff sweetheart, so just give him time.
2006-06-13 15:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by Dr.Jones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all give it some more time. Also when a guy likes he does'nt forget to call. Just take it slow. It seems that you have a connection and that's good. I n my estimation I would say yes he likes you.
2006-06-13 15:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by Yendor478 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it, but you need to ask him what his intentions are. He also sounds a bit moody. Can you live with this in a long term serious relationship?
2006-06-13 15:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by noitall147 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think having an ex he would not be talking about marriage unless he has deep feelings for you.
2006-06-13 15:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by Aaron R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man you chicks make it hard could it be more obvious whats he gotta do get cupid to snap kick you to the head and plant a round house to your belly. he wants you that way baby
2006-06-13 15:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋