He is always flirting with me and looking at me and making up exuses to be by me. But we never see each other. I am pretty sure he likes me(mabey?) but I never see him enough to let him know I like him back. I am to shy to just go and tell him I like him. We are perfect for each other but I'm afraid it will never happen. What should I do?
2006-06-13 15:20:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to believe in yourself that it can happen. but always keep in mind that if things dont work out then its ok. Theres plenty of time in da world to find tha right person! Just find a way to spend time with him and show him how you really feel about him!
2006-06-13 15:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are a lot of things you leave out.
Age, how far apart you live from one another, is he in a relationship? so on....
If you're able then I'd make it a point to maybe email/call him and straight out ask him out for drinks (over 21) or (under 21) ask him to go to a movie b/c a friend of yours said it was cool! Or something to that nature. Sometimes one of you HAS to be the tough one and get things done. From what you say, he does sound very interested in you so why not take the leap! What do you have to lose? What do you have to gain?
Good luck!
2006-06-13 15:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by Trent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he really likes you too, but he's probably also too shy to say so. Tell him about something you're planning on doing (start small, like going to lunch or movie, walking dog, etc), and see if he would like to join you. Even if he says no, it might be for a different reason, so don't worry about it. Just suggest some things like that so you can see him more. If he wants to see you more too, he'll be there.
2006-06-13 15:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by jjo6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I have had the same problem...believe me! But even though I got turned down (both times) I might add...I still went for it. I told him how I feel....that way you will know if it was ever meant to be instead of wondering what if all your life. Even though it didn't work out for me..I felt a big weight lifted off of my chest. Hey it didn't work out for me, but it could work out for you. Ya never kno, so give it a shot. Tell him how you feel <3
2006-06-13 15:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he's definantly showing signs he likes u. problem is your shy what you should try doing is getting to know him more being around him cause if u wont another girl who isn't shy will. it'll happen don't worry just email him and tell him to email u exchange addresses this way you two can keep in touch online.
and u wont have to worry about your shyness cause he can't see you.
good luck!
hey if u need anymore help i'm here
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2006-06-13 15:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by Cupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe the two of you to be perfect for one another but have the fear of it never happening, I suggest you get over your shyness in this matter and go for what you want. Knowing, regardless the outcome, is better than wondering "what if".
2006-06-13 15:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a thing called email and then there is something better called instant messaging. Or even try the phone. Woooh. Exchane numbers and email addresses. Something is bound to pop off. You make the move!
2006-06-13 15:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think you should go up to him and tell him how you feel. get the courage! not saying anything isn't going to get you anywhere and for all you know he could be just as scared as you. what is the worst that happens? he says he doesn't feel the same way? well then you know your answer and can move on, wouldn't that be better than just never knowing?
2006-06-13 15:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by livingandloving 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't see each other long enough to let him know how you feel, what makes you believe that you are perfect for each other?
2006-06-13 15:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by shelby1559 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could write him a note telling him how u feel and give it to him on the times that u do see him. That way, u don't actually have "tell" him, lol it worked for me. Good Luck!
2006-06-13 15:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋