When my boyfriend and I first started going out, I heard a rumor that a girl he used to like had kissed him maybe two or three days after him and I were official.
Naturally, I confronted her. OF COURSE! She whined and whined that it was before he asked me to be with him, so I told her she had better be telling the truth cause I was gonna find out. I asked him, he said the same. And I believe him, so I let it go.
Still, she would leave him comments saying that she loved him and signing, "-your wifey."
I kind of ignored it, but I COMPLETELY hate her.
Is that wrong...?
2006-06-13 15:12:47 · 14 answers · asked by samanthageeoh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No your not wrong at all... I would be just as mad, she is trying to make you jealous. But he is your man and picked you remember that if he wanted her he would have her, but he doesn't. Just talk to him and ask why does she say your wifey.. I'm your girlfriend. I hate to say this but I have found that if you put him a similar situation like a guy acting like that to you he sudden will get jealous and will stop everything with that other girl.
2006-06-13 15:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ashlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 09:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, it's not wrong at all but your boyfriend would mostly rather date someone that pays more attention to him than to some other girl that's trying to get him. So sure you could hate her but just try not to show it around your boyfriend and he'll be more fond of you than the other girl that's whining.
2006-06-13 15:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by gio1991a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You're a better person than she is- if you were like her, you could talk about you and your boyfriend's incredible sex life in front of her and make comments about how his past female companions didn't compare. You could include kissing in that, too.
2006-06-13 15:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by lookdontlook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you're free to do whatever with your feelings.
But...look at it closely. Is she deliberately trying to take your boyfriend away from you? Maybe it's your boyfriend who's making her act this way. Deal with this by telling your boyfriend that if he's trying to see her on the sly, he's a jack@ss.
2006-06-13 15:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Siddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not wrong, you don't have to hate her but i get the vibe that she is doing this on purpose, maybe to make u jealous. You should talk to your boyfriend and ask why she is doing that! She had no right and you should know
2006-06-13 15:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by gelli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HECK NO THATS NOT WRONG!!!!! i'd hate her too!!!! if someone did that to my boyfriend i would chrew her out so bad she could speak for a week and she would keep muttering im sorry. a good slap or two as well.
2006-06-13 15:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong at all. I guess maybe you feel she is sort of your competition or something? But either way, she obviously doesn't get that he's taken by someone else now.
2006-06-13 15:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by goshimwaycool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it is a friend of mine went though a simular situation.
2006-06-13 15:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hate her to that happend to me and i confronted her just like you and now we both hate each other!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-13 15:26:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋