I'm not sure how I feel about her, the sexual intercourse is great, but I just don't want to rush into things or get in a relationship that i don't want??? I am just really confused!
2006-06-13 14:53:20 · 6 answers · asked by moman1989 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then you are using her. You will only hurt her if you continue with this.
2006-06-13 14:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by Abs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do whatever you want, the decision is up to you, not the people on the internet.
However though, If you just want sex and nothing more but you don't want to "lead" her on, well the only simple answer is to tell her. You might lose the sex, but that's the consequence.
You can lie to her too, but remember you're going to hurt her this way, you might get more sex, but it comes down to, do you really care for this girl?
Do you want a relationship?
Do you just want sex?
Do you want both?
What do you want? That's the thing you should ask yourself...
Any answer is fine...
And only you can answer this.
2006-06-13 22:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. No 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you think is love! or her! Intercourse is great until you wake up the next morning. then what. sex is one of the greatest pleasures we can enjoy. Sometimes for LOVE, sometime for just hedonistic feelings. Decide which it is. If you keep on going with it, and you don't feel what she does, then stop.
2006-06-13 22:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by jcian68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh! You've already slept with her but you don't want to "rush into things"?!!!
Tell her how you feel and apologize and then tell her that she should look for someone who can love and respect her. If she keeps coming back for more then it's HER fault and she's just a glutton for punishment!
2006-06-13 22:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to break things off with her or at the very least tell her that you are not inlove with her, it is just CRUEL to lead someone on that way.
2006-06-14 00:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by ~Princess*Bonkers~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you shouldn't have had sex with her if you don't like her! Most girls want an acual relationship!!!
2006-06-13 21:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋