well my step mom moved from boston last year in june and she brought her cat down and so her cat got some liver problems and he was or is going to have to be put to sleep and i just really cannot get over it because there are so many times me and him that was funny and stuff and still i cannot stop crying.
2006-06-13 14:51:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Cats
i also dont want to get another one until later on because my step mom wants to get over it 1st
2006-06-13 15:00:16 · update #1
There are lots of support groups in many communities and over the internet that help people who have lost pets cope with there feelings and move on. Surround yourself with people who understand what you're going through, not the people who say, Oh, buck up, it was just an animal, cause I'm sorry, but that always makes it worse for me. Sorry about your kitty and feel better soon. =)
2006-06-13 14:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Itis normal to mourn the loss of a pet, just as you would someone dear to you. Write down your thoughts to your cat in a journal or something like that. Tell him how much you loved him and miss him. Picture him playing healthy and happy at the rainbow bridge. Think about getting another pet, maybe a dog this time, not to take the place of the cat you lost, but to help fill the empty space left behind.
2006-06-13 21:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so sorry for you. You might want to get another cat to replace ol' Mr.Sniffles. I had a dog which had a sad ending but I got another dog of the same ough breed all though I am not very satisfied.
2006-06-13 21:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by ___ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do is wait grieve a little bit than go out and get another animal and i dont recommend naming it the other ones name cause its gonna bring back old memories of the other cat
2006-06-13 22:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my cat of 16 yrs last September. Sometimes I see her out the corner of my eye, and I've had dreams about her. You don't get over it. I've never replaced her. She was my 1 and only "Baby", she was the runt of the litter.
2006-06-13 22:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by Raven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey its human to morn over something or someone we love and lose....it will get better...why dont u get yourself another pet...it wont take the place of the lost pet..but it will fill a void...and you will begin to love it as much....and you will still have your memories of your other pet..i have had many..each one put a bright spot in my life and in my heart....i miss them all...there are so many out there that need a good loving home....it would be nice to see one get one....hope u can recover...life is short....and precious....all life....animals. included....
2006-06-13 21:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by prwoman95356p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a new pet that is the same breed and looks exactly the same and name it what you named the other pet that you lost pretend that is the pet you did but didn't lose.
2006-06-13 21:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you get a new cat.Then just try to remember all the good times you had with him.I know it is tuff just give some time!!
2006-06-13 22:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by Niki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, as i see, its seems to be a hard moment to you. you only can keep crying till you begin to feel better. because you can buy another one but those memorizes not. so just hold on.
2006-06-13 21:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by motor 24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new pet and try not to think about it
2006-06-13 21:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by raeee-nuhhh is hella confused.=[ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋