Any tips would be helpful. I mean any guy can sweep any girl off thier feet, they just need the right broom. . .
2006-06-13 14:28:57 · 89 answers · asked by bdy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Comfort her. Enforce the fact that the other guy is scum and that you're there to listen to all her problems. Then try your best to make her laugh and to forget the guy. Then she'll realize that you're the better man!
2006-06-13 14:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by ai_nacco_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time.
Maybe you will move on to another girl or maybe she will get over her crush, but there is a chance that when you "sweep her off her feet" a part of her will keep liking this other guy.
She needs to find out who the right person for her is.
I know it bothers you when she goes on and on about this other guy, but the best thing anyone can possibly have is someone who is always there to love and listen.
Tell her that she's too good for this other guy. Talk to her from your heart. If you are close enough to her, then you will know when the right moment is to tell her.
good luck
2006-06-13 14:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by sherunsintoeverything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-13 14:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by dr_richardsmd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
( like ) is not a good word to use if you are interested in this girl.
Obsession is a powerful feeling that some individual can control it while some can't.
1. Don't tell her that you think you like her. ( sorry that doesn't work ) don't influence her and telling her that she is stop being obssest because you can ( like ) her better. you see ( like ) is not a good word if you are interested.
2. Don't spend time trying to get to her so you can sleep with her. Be a good friend to her always.
3. Open good conversations skills and never neglect her because she not paying you anymind in terms of ( liking you ) .
4. Influence her to follow her dreams but let her know that sometimes people run down the wrong things in life when the dream is right in front of them. Tell her that !!!!!!
and if you want to play with her immotion or even her feelings just to have SEX with her don't do it.
2006-06-13 15:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think like a woman to attract her. I mean, when you are around her, be a gentlemen, get her attention in some way without being a macho stud (that will turn a woman off). Talk with her without acting like you are really attracted to her, be charming, kind and look her right in the eyes when you talk with her. Be confident in yourself and she will pick up on that. Also, do something that will keep her wondering about you for the rest of the night. Don't use pick up lines. Just do something that you are good at that she might like. Don't flex your biseps, show her your tatoos, show her your cars engine, etc. You get the drift?
This is what I mean by trying to think like a girl. Just tune in one what she likes, is interested in, etc. Be intelligent when you talk to her. Don't say "ya know..." or "yo", etc.
Hope this helps?
2006-06-13 14:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by bethizmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun, it takes more than just a broom to win a girl's heart. And you don't - especially if you care about her at all. She'll make her own choices, and for you to try and manipulate them isn't fair to her or yourself. 'Making' someone like you doesn't get you anywhere in the long run, except hurt.
2006-06-13 14:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by gumdrop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily, (the broom crap) . if she isn't in to you, chances are she never will be. TV isn't real life. there is a little more to it than getting her to like you, she will like you no matter what if she likes you, it's not something she plans. it's just something that happens to her, she can't tell you why. you can't fake it. some people just have more charisma than others. the right attitude on your part will generate charisma . what I would suggest is you get it in your head that she likes someone else and if you really like her, you want to see her happy. she is obsessed with him and you are obsessed with her, who is winning here, her ob cession isn't working and your isn't. that should tell you obsession doesn't work. people obsess when they never have a plan of getting what they think they want. when and if they do get it, they don't want it. the game is over. don't try to get her obsessing over you, when she finally gets you she won't want you. meet her on an equal playing field, don't make her chase you. don't play hard to get. treat her the way you want to be treated.
2006-06-13 14:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember, you can't change other people, you can only change yourself. However.. just try doing something nice for her like if she's sick, bring her some tea, or try to be a friend to her and things will come naturally.
just be ready for rejection, it is always a possibility, so don't take it personally, just realize there are a lot more girls out there, she may not be the one or it might not be the right time :)
2006-06-13 14:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by Fluffington Cuddlebutts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol.You are in the same boat as me.Here is what i did to become freinds with the girl.First off if possible become freinds with her.Second meet her freinds,get to know the real "Her" through them.And if this dosnt work,then just settle with being freinds with her for a while and then when she learns that this other guy isnt all he is made up to be,then you are right there.(Youre imagination goes here). Hope that helped you.
Dave
2006-06-13 14:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by machiner94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't see how wonderful you are then stop wasting your time on her. Besides, If things didn't work out with the 2 of you she may become obsessed with you. You don't want that. Keep your options open untill you find the one who is right for you. She won't be obbsaessed with someone else.
2006-06-13 14:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋