I graduated from school, so it's hard to meet women. I tried to make conversations with women that I met at public places, asked for their number and asked her out couple of days later. I was polite and friendly with them and seemed like they gave good response. But, they always turn cold and dissapear. Am I doing something wrong or is it just not the right way to meet women??
2006-06-13 14:23:48 · 16 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have met women everywhere and dated them, school was a captive audience, you didn't have to have any skills there. it's like shooting ducks in a pool. now you are in the real world, it's not quite so easy as having them bussed in for you to pick and choose. it's rejection time. that may be a new word to you but get use to it. the gurls in the real world don't care what you tell your buddy about her. she doesn't care how cool you think you are. she can walk away and chances are never see you again. you are thinking hey I will get a job, I can meet women their, not! you don't date women at work. you still gotta work with them when its over. if you do it right, you won't have to ask them , they will ask you. women aren't possessions to be had. "getting one" is not your objective. your objective is developing a like for women and not as an adversary, you want to develop an attitude that women are not running from you , they want men around them as much as you want women around you, it isn't a game they play on you just to piss you off. they don't feel you. they feel desperation. quit trying so hard to trap one and they will be everywhere you are. good luck
2006-06-13 14:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
did you try giving the girl a call a couple days after the date? It is hard to meet new people in private places. My grandmother recomends meeting people at church or college as opposed to bars. You seem really sweet and it is actually a good sighn that you're not just being lead on and taken advantage of. You may not be exactly what the girls you date are looking for. Relax and stop trying so hard. When you quit looking love will sneak up on you.
2006-06-13 14:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my boyfriend at a local hole in the wall bar on an off night (Tuesday). Since the night we met, we have spent each & every day together. We now live together and have plans of marriage & a home purchase sooooon.
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Good luck!!!
2006-06-13 14:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phew - this is a hard one! Yes I guess it does depend on the circumstances of WHERE you meet - and whether or not it comes under the definition of natural or spontanious - otherwise, there are places that are held mutually, where it is EXPECTED and even looked for (you know, like clubs, pubs, parties, etc) Other than that, you might do better to get invoved with a group of people who have similar pursuits etc
Hope this helped
2006-06-13 14:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blame it on shows like LIfetime. Women are afraid of strangers.
Go join a club, an association, etc. Meet women that share similar interests with you. Do NOT use bars to meet women.
2006-06-13 14:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I am a girl who has dated to people from a public place. The frist guy was passing out news papers at our local K-mart and he was nice and we talk once or twice. He got my number and we dated and almost married. The other one was a total jerk.. It depends on the girl and what she thinks might be right. personally I wouldn't do it again! but I have my reasons why!
2006-06-13 14:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by splashykp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my current guy at walmart. haha. I think a better way to meet women would be to join some sort of club or organization, or find someone you work with or something. That way you know you'll meet someone you at least have something in common with!
2006-06-13 14:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by goshimwaycool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to meet people at places I frequent. But I talk to the people who work there. Actually my boyfriend right now is my butcher. Just talking to random people has never worked for anyone I know.
2006-06-13 14:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah... it's not you.
You're just not meeting the right women!
Hang at the beach, the park, etc. Places where people go to relax and have fun.
Good Luck!
Aloha!
2006-06-13 14:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the internet is considered a public place then yes I did and I married him.
2006-06-13 14:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by Diana C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋