we've been dating for 4 months.He always says he loves me.But i noticed that everytime we talk.He always mentioned his friend.When i asked him he says they are very close.There's nothing going on.They been friends for almost a year.Her bf is his bestfriend.Should i believe him?
2006-06-13 14:18:54 · 19 answers · asked by skyrus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When it comes down to it, you should trust your instincts. If you think there's something fishy going on between him and his "friend," then there probably is something going on. So be wary and let time do it's thing. Don't fret too much about love; just enjoy your time with him and things will fall where they may.
2006-06-13 14:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by ai_nacco_2000 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2006-06-13 21:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by dr_richardsmd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you believe him ???
Ask yourself....
As far as knowing if he really loves you ??? That would never be possible as the human mind has a very clever way of hiding the true feelings...
What would be a practical solution is that you give the relationship some time & space. Stop going out only with him, start going out withother friends of yours also (alone if the friend is girl & if teh friend is a boy then ONLY in a group).
Observe what it does to him & I'm sure it will be better for your relationship...
Cheers !!!
2006-06-13 21:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by isit_itis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that true love comes to anyone until much later in life.
Teenagers are still being influenced by their hormones and sometimes those intense feelings are just intense hormonal reactions.
In order to understand true love, it will take time. Lots and lots of time. I've met couples in their 80's who've been together since childhood and they are still madly in love.
Love is a big risk. There is no way of knowing until enough time has passed.
2006-06-13 21:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will tell you that they love you just to get 1 thing. But in your case I feel that he is not being very truthful to you. The best advice that I can give to you is to trust your female instincts.
2006-06-13 21:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by MissPrettyThick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make friends with this girl. make friends with her boyfriend. be a square of friends, not a jealous girlfriend on one side, a jealous boyfriend on the other, and a pair of good friends. I think in the current situation, you can trust his word. chances are, her boyfriend is jealous about the fact that ur boyfriend and her are so close.
2006-06-13 21:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by lizziesista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Present a hypothetical scenario to him:
Ask him what he would do or how he would feel if you were in a physical fight with XXXX (name someone who is equally dearest to him). You know he loves you if he says he would wish for you to win the battle.
2006-06-13 21:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by blucille2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love expresses itself in deeds and attitudes as well as talk. If he wasn't chattering about loving you, would you feel loved? If so, then stop worrying about this friend. If not, then the friend isn't really the issue.
2006-06-13 21:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is messed up,but to test him look for a pretty gril and ask her to flirt with ur bf. tell the girl to ask ur bf if he has gf and stuff like that.
2006-06-13 21:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by phili(pino) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a very special and powerful gift....you'll know...because God doesn't keep those kind of gifts to Himself.
2006-06-13 21:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by masya_art 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋