Just tell her and get it over with
2006-06-13 14:19:02
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answer #1
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answered by nastaany1 7
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i am a mom. im pretty open minded enogh to hear my kids out before passing judgement I agree with some of these answeres but never hide anything from you mom. witchcraft can be for the greater good which kind you use is the choice you make. maybe sometime you could bring up the subject and check out her response that way better to do that than letting her find out by going in your room. talk about several topics then include that one as well. say a friend was talking to you about it one day and would like her opinion about it. I do hope it is for the good. we need all the good we can get. good luck let me know
2006-06-13 14:33:17
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answer #2
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answered by Casandra P 1
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Okay, for starters ignore all the judgmental and rude answers your question may bring, and focus on those of us who really want to help. I'm hearing that you have a serious problem -- a lifestyle choice that might be unpopular with your parents. This is a problem faced each day by millions of Americans who make choices that are different than those who raised us would choose. The real secret to a successful revelation of this is respect. Respect your mom, be aware that she'll probably say things out of surprise (that she'll likely not mean and may regret later), and that she will consider this choice to be changable. Tell her straight-up with a respectful tone, and then let her vent. ("Mom, I have something to tell you that you may not like, but I respect you enough that I don't want to keep secrets...") Plan your talk for a time when you can't sit and discuss it forever, and when you'll be able to tell her, then let her have some time apart to digest it. Your mom is your mom and she loves you. This may be hard but you can work through it together. It may be helpful to take a neutral person that you both respect along for the ride -- to make you both "behave" and to keep it from digressing into something ugly.
Blessings to you,
~Tia~
Live from the big, purple brain
http://advision.webevents.yahoo.com/asktheplanet/brain.html
2006-06-13 14:27:46
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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I was into witchcraft when I was a teenager, and I was hardcore into it, like conjuring up spirits and putting spells on people (that I know worked). And I was very serious about it being my main religion. I told my mom, but I hated her I didn't care if I upset her. Even if you're that serious, don't worry about telling her, by the time it's a problem, you'll have grown out of it.
2006-06-13 14:32:38
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answer #4
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answered by heybitches 4
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I'd sacrifice her before I'd tell her, or tie her up and then tell her while holding a knife in the middle of a circle in the woods and then sacrifice her, or tie her to her bed and then burn her and while she screams wisper it to her (my favorite i wish id done that when i was young)... umm, If she thinks your a lil innocent good girl type, do something like start cussing really loud around the house or tell her to go to hell a few times, prance around naked covered in blood once and they might get the picture (or give you a bath and send you to your room)... my favorite is to get a wedge board and use it, put it under her bed after asking the phantoms. that kinda stuff usually prepares them, and then when you tell her explain why you started cussing or doing weird things.
Id have a "prayer" night alone outside, and dont burn any sage or candles, you can pour some blood on yourself though... you never know if the great one will help you or not, he could take her living soul to hell and then you wouldnt have to worry about telling her, and if the great one actually does this for you then you will know that one day you could be a powerful witch...
if you have a dog sacrifice it and put its head in the drivers seat of her car, she will probably get the picture.
2006-06-13 14:34:51
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answer #5
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answered by aroundthecorner_bumpme 2
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Are you kidding me? Seriously, is this what you are really doing?? Isnt there more interesting meaningful things to do?? First of all you dont tell your mother, cause what you are going through is a fase. I did the whole witch craft crap when I was a teenager with my sister. I told my mother and she beat the **** out of me. Besides do you really want Satan really knocking at your door? Save all that hocus pocus for Hollywood.
2006-06-13 14:24:31
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answer #6
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answered by sicilygal2581 3
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If you continue with this - it will cause a lot of trouble for you. You should rethink the whole thing and find something else to occupy your mind - like taking care of a dog or cat, studying nature, classical music, the Legitimate Theater,
Gardening, Egyptology etc.
2006-06-13 14:29:11
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answer #7
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answered by fatsausage 7
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Depends on your definition of "witchcraft" and your own motives. Besides, if you're that dependent on your Mom's reaction, then you're too young to be messing with stuff you don't really know the seriousness of.
2006-06-13 14:22:44
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answered by bikerpjb 4
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Maybe you could just let her figure it out for herself? Drop subtle hints. Giving her the chance to figure it out on her own will keep her from "freaking" out because she will slowly and gradually except it before she actually asks you about it. When she asks you about don't make it into a big deal and hopefully she wont either!
2006-06-13 14:23:59
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answered by Anonymous
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If you are soo ashamed of something that you can't tell your mother, then you should not be doing it.
Tell her and be prepared to answer the questions, accusations and fear. Because it would scare me that my child felt a need to turn to witchcraft.
2006-06-13 14:21:06
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answered by C-Squared 2
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Think about what it was about witchcraft that attracted you to it, and what was most real to you about the purpose of what you're doing. Perhaps in that way, when you've inspected your own thoughts, you can use what you've seen to explain what you're doing, and why.
Hope this helps you with you and your mum
2006-06-13 14:20:35
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answer #11
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answered by Tash 3
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