I met a guy through mutual friends a couple months ago. We have hung out (never a planned date) several times. He is clearly interested in me and I am interested in him. Problem is he has a girlfriend who lives about two hours away - they've been dating a couple years, but don't see each other more than once a month or so. He's not the kind of guy who would just screw around on her; I know this because we started kissing once and he guiltily stopped, but has continued to hang out with me. What are the chances he'll give up the old cow for the person he likes who lives in the same area code, being me?
2006-06-13 14:03:28 · 8 answers · asked by dorothy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has girffriend whom he has been dating for a couple of years. Here you are whom he met just a couple of months ago. Well, time being the factor for analysis, I would say that it might be difficult for him to decide right now if he wants you or not to replace his present girl more especially because you said that he is not that kind of guy who readily dumps girls when they like someone new.
His kissing you even once is a sure sign that he is interested in you. However, he wanted to be fair to his girlfriend so he immediately stopped. That would make him someone who should be trusted by any girl. There is a big chance that he may give up his present relationship for you but perhaps that is something that he has to plan for with decency and maturity.
Don't stop hanging around with him and be the best friend that he could have in his life. When Destiny works with you, very soon you will have him in your arms.
2006-06-13 14:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to respect the relationship between him and his girlfriend. Eventhough they are two hours away from eachother, that does not mean he will leave her for you because like how you mentioned before, he has been dating her for a couple of years, and to maintain that long distance relationsbip, they must really love eachother. You should also be very careful, because some guys with just keep both of you, and I'm pretty sure you wouldn't like that. I think yall should just be friends.
2006-06-13 14:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by DARI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to start a relationship with someone who can be pried away from his girlfriend just because someone more accessible comes along? Respect the guy and yourself and leave the other relationship alone. If he becomes available, then you can pursue him and have a healthy start.
2006-06-13 14:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would he do that? He can stay in his long distance relationship and still get his sexual urges taken care of? Men are not that hard to figure out, you are digging too deep! As long as you keep your legs closed and keep two as friends he might see you as girlfriend material. But you have to make it clear that you won't do anything sexual with him unless he breaks up with his girlfriend. You shouldn't even kiss him anymore!
2006-06-13 14:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by octobereyecandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey how would you like it if your boyfriend lived a couple of hours away and some old cow wanted to be his girlfriend in his own town? Treat her like you would want her to treat you!
2006-06-13 14:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not think he would leave someone he loves for just anyone. if you are really interested in him you should ask him. how else will you know if he is interested in making you his girl?
2006-06-13 14:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by lauritalucky@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably !!
If things are not working out between them , then he will leave her for you. Good Luck!!
2006-06-13 14:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Jazmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he will try to have you and her too.
2006-06-13 14:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋