MEN!! Is this okay behavior?

Question

When you see your girlfriend you are very sweet to her and talk about how much you care for her. You are very attentive and remember all your conversations with her. You have discussed marriage, having kids, etc. She is very special to you. However, you have a physical job in which you work 70+ hours a week. You get one day off a week, sometimes you spend it with her and sometimes you don't. She doesn't mind that, but you rarely check up on her and when she calls you, you tell her that you'll call her back later. Why would you do that?

Answer 1

Sounds like an unhealthy relationship. When I was gone all the time and involved with a lady. I made the best of every minute I was off work to be with her. Something is going on.

Answer 2

I've yet to hear of anyone working 70 hours a week. Sounds like one big lie to me. And he only see's you one day occassionally. When he feels up to it.
Hon, you dont have a boyfriend, I'm not sure what he is, but he isn't yours.
A boyfriend is someone you see and spend time with, all the time. You talk on the phone, you go to dinner, lunch, etc. Parties, even.
You are on your own a whole lot more than with him.
Time to find a decent boyfriend, who does what he says, and will act the part.

Answer 3

Not really... that shows you arent that important to him. Call me up and I will give you all the attention you need.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Threaten to leave him! Tell him that YOU are NOT happy. Tell him you need to talk....

Answer 6

or because we're sleeping with someone else or we have work
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