What do you do when the girl you like thinks she's in love with an older Guy?

Question

I like her and she think's she's in love with a guy named Paul who graduated just this year. We're both 15, in case you wanna know.
Anyways...she probably knows I like her...but she rarely ever really talks to me...sometimes I think she intentionally ignores me...I don't know...what should I do?

Answer 1

Eventually you will get a life that interests grls, and you will be the guy who gets the girls. I mean I just don't know many women who find a "star wars nerd with a mullet and no life" (as you put it yourself) attractive enough to even date.

But let's also hope you don't turn into the kind of guy who will "fall in love" with underage girls...

Find out more about yourself and share it with girls you are interested in, but NEVER at the expense of finding out about HER as well. So many men never listen to what a woman is practically broadcasting to them. And since we can assume you are smart (you are one of the scary few on Yahoo that actually spells and uses correct grammar), we can assume you can figure out what she's saying and read between the lines-- and hear her heart's desires.

It's all about communication.

Figure that out and your mate will be as devoted to you as you are to her. Unless you want to be a "bad" boy, and then the women you attract will be the ones who NEED pain, which is sad in itself...

But you sound sweet and sincere-- which places you pretty high on the list of what women want...

Good Luck :)

Answer 2

Well, since it seems like she's not interested, you'll just have to wait. but you have plenty of time to find the right girls, you're 15.

And this is not answering your question, but I saw something else that you answered, "I haven't yet so, I have no idea...and I won't till I get married... " Me too! I'm going to be 18 in August. Strange how we're strange. Anyway, I respect you for your decision and I hope others do, too. You're not alone!

Answer 3

Find out if the graduate is going away to college or moving for a job. Try again when he's out of the picture, but in the meantime don't pin too much hope on this. If she isn't even friendly to you just getting rid of a rival won't help much.

Answer 4

Sorry honey. She's just not into you. You're young and more sensitive to these types of things. Look around, there MUST be someone else you could 'like' if given the chance. Good luck!~smiles

Answer 5

well, you can either wait and wait for nothing to happen and drive yourself nuts, or you can ask the girl to hang out with you sometime, and then (if she agrees) tell her how much you like her. Worst case scenario, she won't want to hang out with you, or she'll hang out, but tell you she doens't like you back. Since you already think this in your head, it would be good to hear how she actually feels - especially if its different than what you think! Either way, you can stop driving yourself nuts & move on.

Answer 6

maybe you should try finding someone else to like. i'm sure there are plenty of pretty girls in your highschool and there might be someone you might be ignoring. :) good luck at find a cute girl.

Answer 7

Look for an older woman!

Answer 8

just wait it out..if you are the right person and she has a clue then it will all come out in the wash...love and infatuation are easily confused...

Answer 9

prove to her that you are better than that person. in time she will start noticing you and realize that you're willing to do anything just to make her happy.

Answer 10

what do you mean she THINKS she's in love with an older guy? you don't have a clue what she thinks!