i love women but the ones i've known are not my type. some of them have babies and some do not care about themselves.
someone said that praying for kids without the woman is not going to happen. she said God is a straight-forward God.
i know some are going to say pray for a woman to be sent.
is it wrong to want to be a single father then find a wife?
what about all the people that single adopt?
there are plenty of single women out there raising other people kids.
i'm 33 now and i have been with women. some just a fling.
they say you have to be long suffering. i've been wanting kids since i was 17. over the last 16 years the women weren't the right ones, trying to live like the bible says.
it's frustrating. there are plenty of women to sleep with but there are diseases and the women in my area aren't worth going with. some are just looking for sugar daddy or golddiggers, or into drugs.
sometimes i just wish God would deliver a couple of babies at my door.
fantasy
2006-06-13 13:27:38 · 25 answers · asked by niss9 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You ARE a single father! You have an 8 year old. If you want to adopt look into it.
2006-06-13 14:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask for a couple of babies to be left at your door? We're talking about human lives, not puppies. Get real. If God wants you to be a father, then He will make it happen. I believe that children need both a mother and a father figure in their lives. Many don't have that and still succeed, and this is not an ideal world. Why wouldn't you ask God to help you find the right woman and to make children a part of both your lives so that you could all grow and share in the experience? God knows what is best for you. Be patient, keep praying and what happens is the way it is meant to. Good luck.
2006-06-13 13:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by crimsongal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should travel outside your area to date. I understand what you are going through I feel the same way about guys in my area. But I did have a really good relationship(friendship) with a guy that wasn't local. We are still friends now. I found that when you date locally everyone knows everyone and everyone are into the same thing-nothing. I don't think there is anything wrong with you wanting to be a single parent but coming from a mother of three(boys) it ain't easy! It's so much better and easier when there is help and someone special to share it with. I am 30 and feel desprate for getting married again. But maybe it's not my time yet. God will bless you with your precious bundles of joy when HE see fit-not you. Just remember that and enjoy life singlely while you can. Cause one they are here, you're going to need all of your energy to focus on them!
2006-06-13 13:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jacqueline S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's really different. Usually it's the women wanting children and the men have to be convinced. You should get involved in some types of para church type groups. Single women are involved in them too. I mean like outreaches, inner city workers, soup kitchens, maybe you could be a baby cuddler at a single moms drop in center or ladies bible study group! There you go. some ideas. God bless and best wishes.
2006-06-13 13:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are meant to ask questions and spot what's authentic. If it lines up with the Bible that's real, if no longer, it really is pretend....the DaVinci code is complete of outright lies and isn't any longer truth....Jesus is alive so there isn't any desire for a tomb with bones....even CNN stated that one replaced right into a hoax..... And as for Jesus being married.....have you ever considered a pair quite in love? They do issues for another for all time. He replaced into with the disciples for all time and there is rarely even a rumor of a spouse putting forward, why are you going off with those adult men, spend some time with me. Jesus did not provide all people care of a spouse at the same time as he replaced into on the bypass which if he'd had a spouse, in that society she would have needed someone to look after her....and how can we (the church) be the Bride of Christ if He already had a bride.
2016-10-14 03:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is not full of contradictions -- He clearly wants you to be married prior to having children. There are plenty of women out there and God has one for you, just continue to be patient. Pray about it, maybe you need to adopt a child. Just a thought...
2006-06-13 13:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by mikerigel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, if the woman comes first you can have a child between the both of you as opposed to adoption. However, adoption is an excellent alternative but then you wont necessarily have to have a woman.
2006-06-13 13:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by Destined2beGreat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest instead of babies, perhaps older toddlers or young children may be easier for you to adopt. A child without a family would love a good hearted Dad even if he doesn't have a wife.
2006-06-13 13:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by MillwoodsGal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pray to see if adoption is possible. you never know God works in mysterious ways. Just know that the right woman is out there. and she may be wanting the same thing. is it fair to start without her? and is it fair to raise kids without some motherly figure in their life? and i'm not talkin about YOUR mother. Dont do what you wish God wanted for you. good things come to those who WAIT!
2006-06-13 13:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by sincerely sarah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look into adoption... maybe this is the outlet God will give you children through. You have to take the steps first.
2006-06-13 13:32:11 · answer #10 · answered by anh51787 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋