My ex and I had a very good relationship. It was more than perfect. I went away for a few months, but before I left- he told me that he was having doubts about being in a serious relationship, but he would try to work out his issues so we could be together when I came back.he decided that he didnt want to be in a relationship out of nowhere. We remained friends, after I cried for days. When I came back, we were just friends for a while, but it seems like we cant stay away from each other for long. We have been intimate 3 times since then, and making plans for him to stay the night over again. Also he is making plans for us to go out. I really love this guy- but i know that now is not a good time for me( or him)to be in a relationship. I just graduated college, and he is a senior in college. But i cant get him out of my system. I love him to death, but i dont want to scare him by telling him that I love him, and want to be with him eventually. What do I do?
2006-06-13 13:24:21 · 3 answers · asked by lovelylady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him how you feel and don't sound like your anxious either and well just let what ever happen to happen
2006-06-13 13:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by sweetloveitt 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
to be honest....if he is not really ready to be with you, what you shuold do is to breakup with him coz he is not ready to go on with you coz he may found a girl while you were absent, so....what you got to do is just try to be more with your closed friends, and be focus on your own future. remember that this could be your last opportunity to be happy for real. remember that;no life is a waste, and you are very important for every one in your family.
2006-06-13 20:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by oxomocotzin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is getting what he wants now and if you want ot take it any further then stop giving in to him
2006-06-13 20:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋