how come men can't stop themselves from checking out other women when he's with his girl??

Question

seriously what's up with that?? even like riding down the road you pull up to a stop light and look over and here's this guy just starin' at you and then there's his girl sittin' right next to him...he has to loko away all fast when she notices that something's got his attention...

Answer 1

It's is b/c they have very low self esteem and want to see if other chicks are looking at him b/c he is sooo insecure. Poor dumb guys.

Answer 2

Men, by nature like women. Women who are looked at more often, on the other hand, are attractive women in their own right. Even with their girlfriends around or beside them, many men naturally look at other women not to hurt their girls but rather because that is natural for them to do. Most of the time, looking at other women mean nothing to them at all unless the look has something with it such as a hidden sexual desire or an intense admiration.

Women, therefore, should not be hurt with the thought that their men look at other women at one point or another in his life because, as I have emphasized, that is but a natural thing for them to do. Look around you and you will see happy relationships despite that fact. Men look at other women, women looking at other men, what a natural phenomenon! Remember this: This is not the test of true love. Being faithful is.

Answer 3

Human nature. Detail oriented. Observant.

All words to describe why this may be happening. Even if you were wearing a bag over your head, a guy would probably look and stare. We're a curious lot.

Answer 4

They're dogs plain and simple . When I'm out with a lady I like to make her feel as though she's the centre of the universe, and the first step to doing that is to give her my complete attention.

Answer 5

A lot of men do this it's like the wife isn't their and there just sitting their with their eyes popping out of their head.
their are solutions to this but just remember men are always going to look they'll just wait till u arn't around.

you could pretend to start looking at other guys when he blows just tell him it's what he's been doing to you.

or u could just tell him he isn't respecting the relationship

or SMACK!!!! when he does it......LOL jk


hope i could help yours truly Cupid.

Answer 6

They can stop it. It's like what the person posted above about low self esteem. They are always trying to make sure someone see's them and think they should do it cause it makes them feel like a player.

Answer 7

when other women check out my man i make a point to let him know that someone is checking him out. it makes him embarrised but it also makes him feel more confident that another female likes his looks. it also means that i have a good catch.
when i catch my man checking out another girl i also make it a point to let him know i saw it by saying:
"are you looking at her a$$? mine is sexier, she has no love handles, you wouldnt get much riding action outta those."
or something simular. eventually he gets the point and stops for that trip but lately i havent seen him do it at all. i hope thats a good sign.
good luck with yours!

Answer 8

If you are secure in yourself then it shouldn't matter what he looks at as long as it isn't in a disrespectful way he has eyes he can look he is a man thats simple you are a female, if you see a good looking guy you will look also........

Answer 9

It's the same as women buying shoes when they already have 10,20, 30 pairs.

Answer 10

I don't know, but I love men. I don't care if my boyfriend looks, just as long as he doesn't stare at them. I know that he loves me and I love him. That is just how guys are.

Answer 11

lol..i agree i wonder why they do that too, and i'm a boy. they jsut trying to find another girlfriend that is hotter, most care about looks but i care about personality and if she pretty that all