it seems no matter what good deed or how nice i try to be to my girlfriend she rejects any kind guesture ,that i do for her and doesnt seem to appreciate anything i do. what am i doing wrong.
2006-06-13 13:17:55 · 24 answers · asked by lagunsrockx4me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe its not what your doing wrong. Maybe its the wrong girl. The person your with should appreciate you.
2006-06-13 13:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Know what, sometimes - as crazy as it sounds - you can be "too" nice. Maybe ask her what it is she would like you to do. Tell her you try very hard to do nice things for her, but feel like she doesn't appreciate them. Don't yell at her...just sit down and talk to her. She's probably trying to figure out how "real" you are. Most people don't know how it's supposed to feel to be treated as well as you treat her, and maybe she's trying to adjust. Just a thought...I don't know how she feels in this, but I think I would be very humbled by it. She's probably very different than I, and just needs some reassurance that you're really a nice person trying to do what you think is appropriate. Just talk to her...hopefully the two of you can come to a reasonable medium. Good Luck!
2006-06-13 20:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I have seen many nice guys stuck with girls who think they are so much better than the guy. My question is: why do you stick around and put up with her trash? It will not improve and she will not respect you for taking her guff. As some others have said: come right out and ask what her problem is, your relationship can't get any worse...and maybe it is time you find a nice girl who appreciates you. Leave the prima donna to find out she isn't such hot stuff.
Unless you think you can't find anyone better...
OR stop doing nice things for her...maybe you are smothering her...and she might be more interested if you are hard to get.
2006-06-13 20:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by t-bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that she's a very selfish girl. You're not doing anything wrong. Maybe you're actually being to nice to her. Sometimes believe it or not girls like guys who don't always treat them wonderful. You need to back off a bit with the nice gestures. She's taking advantage of your heart. If she continues, then I would say break off with her, that may wake her up. She may realize what a great guy you are and not take you for granted!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-06-13 20:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by Maryanne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is that you are putting her befor yourself that is bad because then you blame her by saying things like "i did it for you" and you done see or she just does not appreciate it which causes a vicious cycle of anger. If she does not "get it" then just be friends with benefits and find someone that can see the deeper you...do your own thing and find a girl that can come along for the ride...
2006-06-13 20:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by hate dept 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't know what u might be doing wrong but maybe she's not telling you something tell her what your asking here on yahoo
figure out why she's acting this way.
theres a reason and u need to find it.
hey if you need anymore help email me at
hitches_help@yahoo.com
good luck bro
2006-06-13 20:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by Cupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say she needs to relax a bit. Try to find out why she does this stuff...she may have some problems she needs help with and you should be there to support her...
2006-06-13 20:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off bud you forgot to remove the huge block of ice from her ***, if nothing you do is good enough then do just that from now on nothing, nada, zip, maybe then she'll realize how good she had it.
2006-06-13 20:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by messedupsingledad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not you .she may just be going through something personal, you could try talking to her and ask her what it is she's going through and ask if there is anything you can do to help. If she says no, then just give her some time.
2006-06-13 20:25:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to help and allow her to come to you and ask for what she needs. Maybe she needs space to think.
Your a good friend, Pandora
2006-06-13 20:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by Pandora R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋