2006-06-13 13:15:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you damaged their ego. Men are babies and get hurt easy. So to ease his pain or embarrassment they turn it around on you.
2006-06-13 13:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by doc_is 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They are embarrassed that you turned them down as they thought you were a sure thing. If you are leading them on, that is not nice...and might make them angry and disappointed that you did not follow through with what they were expecting. Can you imagine giving yourself to someone that would call you all those names? Don't let them intimidate you into giving in!
2006-06-13 20:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by t-bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because at a very base and basic level men are biologically motivated to make babies and the strong and agressive have for millions of years been most likely to survive. I am not making excuses...these men shouldn't act like cavemen anymore...but it's hard to evolve...just necessary.
A good book for you is "The Naked Ape" it really opened my eyes to male behavior as a teenager.
2006-06-13 20:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by Tom B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there is NOTHING that tears a man apart like rejection. And if there's one thing that causes men to be bitter and resentful, that's the one. Not condoning the verbal abuse mind you. Just trying to help you understand why he's being an idiot.
2006-06-13 20:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the answer to this. It's because they know that if you turn them down - their 'nads are gonna be in excruciating pain for the next couple of hours or at least till they get the chance to jack off (scuse my French). Its a condition sometimes referred to as "blue balls". Well thats the physiological side of it anyway...
2006-06-13 20:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sattvik allanek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are boys and they don't mature as fastas girls do. also they hate it when they don't get their way, much less what they want. if someone did this to you- they really don't love you and r only using you to get what they want. a real man will respect your decision and will be willing to wait til u both are ready and mature enough for sex. it is a mature decision with major consecuences. stand your ground and if he won't wait, dump him and find someone who will!
2006-06-13 21:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by Mama-Hen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because at a young age, we are truly infantile. It takes guys way too long to mature, unfortunately as you can see on here some never do.
2006-06-13 20:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men do not like rejection. nobody likes rejection, but they take it hard. they get upset that you wont give into thier horny needs and take it out on you by calling you names. it makes them feel more like a man. it's like theyre saying "i'll show you to reject me!" and they start bitching you out. be lucky they call you names instead of beat/hit you. some men do that when they're rejected.
2006-06-13 20:21:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a crude way, that is good because it shows how immature they are and how sophisticated and way ahead of them you are. Keep it like that til you find someone worthy of your morals.
2006-06-13 20:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are BOYS, not men. They are childish and only want one thing and do NOT respect you. Good for you that you don't sleep with them. Keep it up, save your dignity and keep saying "NO!"
2006-06-13 20:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by dawnwhitehurst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋