Say you are going out with a girl you like. She is everything that you have always wanted. You let her know that and that you want to marry her and have babies with her. However, you are shy and in your culture the woman usually inisiate the relationships. Sometimes you tell her that you'll call her but then you don't. Sometimes you tell her that you'll call and you do. She invites you to go to the movies and you never call her about a time that works for you. And when she calls you to see what's up and to make sure that your not dead (after not hearing from you in days) you tell her that, "Oh I can't go out today cause my cars having trouble, I'll call you later" and then don't call her. Why would you do that, what does that mean?
2006-06-13 13:08:17 · 24 answers · asked by bellacervantes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Means he's OBVIOUSLY not as sincere about his feelings for you. AND that he's more into himself then you as a couple. If I had a woman that matched all the things you listed.....I'd treat her like the special woman she is. And she'd sure as hell know it.
2006-06-13 13:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if you really like the guy give him a chance, no, really, love the guy. Get to the bottom of why he's not calling and going out by asking him and talking to him. If you get the feeling that he's just not into you then you just very quietly and calmly shut the door on the relationship. Besides, no one is perfect. There will be times that people can't call and people can't go out.
2006-06-13 20:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this person is just not interested in a relationship, or is so terribly busy that they are spread too thin and just cannot spare the time necessary for all the flowery social graces that one usually expects in a relationship.
2006-06-13 20:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mostly, itll probably mean that theyre really shy and maybe had a bad experience before. Other than that, theres a tiny chance hes obsessed with sex and just acting like an idiot. Im a guy and i dont know.
2006-06-13 20:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Wizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's not interested in you, and finding ways to avoid you. If you find a man thats head over heels for you he will find ways to be with you. If your having these kind of troubles now your going to have worse ones later. Drop him like a hot potato and find someone else. Men will lie to get what they want, then ignore you. Have fun...
2006-06-13 20:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by chromespoke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to think that the problem is inmaturity, insecurity, lack of responsibility and simply flaky. However, some of us are plain rude, cheaters, and overall creeps. Learn to know your man and do not set high expectations too soon.
2006-06-13 20:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by 'stavo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you SURE you're everything he's always wanted?
Also, I'd LOVE to know what culture it is where WOMEN do the initiation - seriously, E-MAIL me with that so I can hang out at their social club.
2006-06-13 20:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is this thing called ego in front of the "BOYS" this happens alot, men generally have to downplay anything and keep up their reputation of "tough guy" with the "boys" while at the same time showing respect to the women. Its hard to balance this.
2006-06-13 20:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by NB75244 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you’ve been a victim of the one night bandit.
Look you gotta be smarter. Dudes will say anything to get it. You have to bypass and cipher out all the B.S.
2006-06-13 20:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by Will 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means leave him alone. He does not like you at all and is giving you sighns intead of telling straight out and breaking your heart. So, LEAVE HIM ALONE. Find someone else to pester.
2006-06-13 20:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by clamp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋